im 15 and i have elongated labia, and im realy consirned about it, im not sure how i got it, do u have it from birth or..? I dont know what to do :-( i dont feel any pain , My just scared about meet a boy one day and if he thinks its weird and i feel really strange and disformed and im to scared to go to the doctor or tell anyone i havent even told my mum, im so scared it looks horrable, plz someone help! :$ !
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It's hard to tell how man replies here are fake, but there are quite a few for sure.
This might sound harsh and rude, but if I found out a woman had this surgery performed for purely aesthetic reasons I would be incredibly turned off. That would be a deal breaker for me, goodbye. (Medical reasons are different.)
I cannot stand the society we live in that emphasizes unnatural and unreal standards at any cost. I prefer my women NOT to look like runway models, and I prefer them NOT to look like pornstars.
As for the cosmetic surgery gives people confidence argument: Sure, if you were born with a cleft pallet, or no nose, makes sense. But because you have an A cup instead of a D cup? Or because your labia are large and protrude? Get a life, really. Learn what men think is sexy and actually LISTEN. Don't trust playboy (fake, airbrushed models) or cosmo (fake, airbrushed models plus women's opinion on what men think = wrong.)
This might sound harsh and rude, but if I found out a woman had this surgery performed for purely aesthetic reasons I would be incredibly turned off. That would be a deal breaker for me, goodbye. (Medical reasons are different.)
I cannot stand the society we live in that emphasizes unnatural and unreal standards at any cost. I prefer my women NOT to look like runway models, and I prefer them NOT to look like pornstars.
As for the cosmetic surgery gives people confidence argument: Sure, if you were born with a cleft pallet, or no nose, makes sense. But because you have an A cup instead of a D cup? Or because your labia are large and protrude? Get a life, really. Learn what men think is sexy and actually LISTEN. Don't trust playboy (fake, airbrushed models) or cosmo (fake, airbrushed models plus women's opinion on what men think = wrong.)
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Me too gurl i feel ur pain, iam 17 and i have elongated labia, i have no idea how it happened. im also concerned about meeting a guy and him feeling disgusted by it, does it get in the way of sexual intercourse, does the guy feel it??. i dont know who to talk to or how to tell someone abt it, i dont know what to do !! :(
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I'm 20 years old and I've had an elongated labia for as long as I can remember. i'm kind of a shy and traditional person, and I've never been sexually active. but it's getting to the point where I'm feeling like no man will ever want to have sex with me if they see my genitals. i'm so scared. also, i have to start doing routine medical exams down there, and I'm worried that the doctor is going to ask me questions or tell me something is wrong.
please somebody help me! tell me the truth because i'm really worried.
please somebody help me! tell me the truth because i'm really worried.
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From the research I've done, it's quite normal to have large labia. Mine became that way over the years as some are just born like that. I doubt you have anything medically wrong but certainly discuss it with your gyne. I went to a plastic surgeon today and scheduled my appointment! I'm uncomfortable with it. I feel badly for you young girls feeling insecure about it. I think its very common for someone to have large labia. You may not like the look of it...but I doubt guys or men would be turned off by it. Men also come in many different shape and sizes and have insecurities of their own. That said, if you are really uncomfortable or in pain, I would discuss it with a close parent or doctor.
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Please help.
I'm only fourteen and a I have "large lips". I thought it was normal until I got in a conversation with friends about vagina's. And then I realized mine wasn't like theirs.
I have swimming in school and I'm so worried. I'm afraid of having a boyfriend and I hate myself because of the way I am down there.
I haven't even told my mum about it but i worry and get upset about it all the time.
Someone please help me, I would've never even thought about surgery down there or surgery full stop but I'm afraid of having sex and the person I love running a mile. I've developed a habit of "tucking them in" so I can pretend I'm normal but what about when I have to go swimming in school? I'm afraid people will see me and talk and say that I'm a freak.
Someone please help :-(.
I'm only fourteen and a I have "large lips". I thought it was normal until I got in a conversation with friends about vagina's. And then I realized mine wasn't like theirs.
I have swimming in school and I'm so worried. I'm afraid of having a boyfriend and I hate myself because of the way I am down there.
I haven't even told my mum about it but i worry and get upset about it all the time.
Someone please help me, I would've never even thought about surgery down there or surgery full stop but I'm afraid of having sex and the person I love running a mile. I've developed a habit of "tucking them in" so I can pretend I'm normal but what about when I have to go swimming in school? I'm afraid people will see me and talk and say that I'm a freak.
Someone please help :-(.
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I had the same problem, lucky I found a bathing suit that was really pretty, and toward the bottom made it look like a really short skirt, so you couldn't see anything.
I'm thinking of having the procedure done myself. I don't know though, I feel really bad about this, and ever since I developed it (mine showed up around the time I started puberty, is this normal?)
I'm thinking of having the procedure done myself. I don't know though, I feel really bad about this, and ever since I developed it (mine showed up around the time I started puberty, is this normal?)
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I had a similar problem... one labia so long it would get abraded and caught in my panties. I had it "fixed" during my hysterectomy and the edges didn't heal properly. They told me I could come back and have it fixed after all the swelling went down, but at this point I don't care any more. Funny thing is how it looks. It's split (front to back). So far, no man I've been with has noticed...
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im 16 and i have the same problem. mine is large and it looks grose:/ i want to go to the drs but im scared he might think im wierd.
like im afraid to have sex with my boyfriend who i have been datin for like 2 years because of it. im so ashamed it hangs down and its like purple and idk its so embrassing...its not painful although sometimes it does bug me when im wearing tight jeans. i think im weird and i hate it. someone help please? oh and all u guys are saying u like it. i dont see how like im scared of mine. ha but i am like im not normal. :-(
like im afraid to have sex with my boyfriend who i have been datin for like 2 years because of it. im so ashamed it hangs down and its like purple and idk its so embrassing...its not painful although sometimes it does bug me when im wearing tight jeans. i think im weird and i hate it. someone help please? oh and all u guys are saying u like it. i dont see how like im scared of mine. ha but i am like im not normal. :-(
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First of all you need to know that you ARE normal... there are soooooooooooo many women with large labia, myself included. Its natural, and its not something you have control of so try not to stress over it. Ive heard many stories of women who regretted getting the surgery.. If youve been with your boyfriend for 2yrs then i would hope he would love you even if he doesnt like your lips which by the way many men do! Although i will say, the younger the boy, the less exeperience he has with the female body and the more likely he is to be turned off and/or make jokes. I personally feel like 16 is too young to be having sex but just know that your body is fine the way it is.. its not a deformity, its just a rarety... If youre going to change anything about yourself.. try to change your way of thinking about the subject... just tell yourself its beautiful everyday and that someday you will find a man who loves it... (when youre old enough ;-) ) Good luck
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Ladies! Regardless of when it showed up or how it showed up...its there and its a part of what makes you unique! If every one was the same... and "perfect" we all would get a little board. I have larger than average labia on one side. I first noticed it around the time puberty hit. I was reaaaaaly insecure about it when i first started to become sexually active. But I have gotten over it and would not risk loosing any sensation opting for surgery. regardless of how renowned and amazing a surgeon is... there is always a chance that something could go wrong and you don't want to risk it. Most women have had positive experiences, but you never know. ...and ladies... your not the only ones with extra skin around there... i have dated two men... one with tons of extra skin around his balls that he could pull the skin really far out when not aroused... we made a joke about it and turned something odd about him into a positive. another guy had balls that hung really low.... neither one of us cared! what is attractive in a sexual situation is not genitalia... its an inner confidence. as long as you are having fun and are mutually participating... the rest isn't even taken into consideration. and this was a lesson i had to learn. because for a long time... i was really embarrassed. and the only time any man ever made a negative comment about it was only due to the fact that his emotional intelligence was that of a neanderthal and he was also really bad in bed. and it wasn't because he didnt like my labia... its that he simply didn't really know what to do with a vagina to begin with. so! i hope some of my shared experiences can give you ladies some courage. don't worry about it..... men enjoy sex regardless of labia and so should you.
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Ladies, please don't mutilate your genitals. What you have is beautiful and DESIRED! If the pain is unbearable that is one thing, but just because its uncomfortable sometimes or just doesnt look like what you think is the desired vagina, don't do it. Being a guy, my package gets uncomfortable sometimes, bound up in briefs for example, but that doesn't mean i get surgery to decrease the size of my manhood. The way I see it, having surgury on your labia just so that it can finally "look nice" is as insane as decreasing the size of my penis or testicles so that they can better fit in my tighteywhities.
I hope this has helped.
I hope this has helped.
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i am 15 also and have the same problem!!! i have been wondering what it was for years now and i finally gained the curage and found the time to find out. knowing that there are other people with this problem helps bt i am STILL terribly embarassed of it.. i would like to hear thats its okay and its sexy but i am in high school and it doesnt work like that. both of my best friends are older and talk about having sex all the time and to be honest it makes me nervous. not the sex part but my labia. if i could, i would want to have the surgery now. to be honest its quite uncomfortable and just sitting in class sometimes is painful X: i saw that someone on here said that their odor went away after the surgery but im pretty sure i dont have an odor down there but how can i be sure? i would just like some reassurance that a high school boy could go down there and not be disgusted thats all
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There is nothing wrong with you. There are alot of benifits of being just the way you are, If your uncomfortable the question is why? Some women have none at all. Personaly I like longer, it is a sign on a woman. Your intemacy will be heightened if you keep them as they are. Foreplay is wonderful the way you are.
It is the same thing as me saying my penis is too long or too short, It is what I have and I am glad it is mine.
Your a lucky woman, dispite what other peope tell you, our culture tells you we should be thin, we should look this way. Not so, we are all individuals. There is never a need to go under the knife. If you ask a plastic surgen they will always say we will give you what you like, and you will look so much better, ask yourself what car do they drive.
Most people are naturaly insecure about their bodies, be your self, be proud of what and who you are.
Most men if not all will think your beautiful I hope you find the truth in my words. Every woman has their own special beauty, your just happens to be hidden :-) be happy.
It is the same thing as me saying my penis is too long or too short, It is what I have and I am glad it is mine.
Your a lucky woman, dispite what other peope tell you, our culture tells you we should be thin, we should look this way. Not so, we are all individuals. There is never a need to go under the knife. If you ask a plastic surgen they will always say we will give you what you like, and you will look so much better, ask yourself what car do they drive.
Most people are naturaly insecure about their bodies, be your self, be proud of what and who you are.
Most men if not all will think your beautiful I hope you find the truth in my words. Every woman has their own special beauty, your just happens to be hidden :-) be happy.
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Ladies, please do not contemplate changing anything on your bodies unless it causes you pain. Women are the most perfect and beautiful creations on the face of this earth. Regardless of their shape or size, skin colour, texture of their hair or any other element of their physical make-up.
It really is time ladies learn to love themselves and not compare themselves to anyone or anything else. You were made to be perfectly you and everthing you have was made to fit, perfectly. If you aspire to be like anyone or anything else, you can only be second best.
As a guy, I am totally in love with large labia: the longer they are, the more of a turn-on they become. I've had girlfriends with elongated labia and oral sex with them is absolute bliss. Enjoy your body, no matter the shape it has, it's perfect. Learn to love every aspect of it and you'll find men love the confidence you have in your own sexuality.
It really is time ladies learn to love themselves and not compare themselves to anyone or anything else. You were made to be perfectly you and everthing you have was made to fit, perfectly. If you aspire to be like anyone or anything else, you can only be second best.
As a guy, I am totally in love with large labia: the longer they are, the more of a turn-on they become. I've had girlfriends with elongated labia and oral sex with them is absolute bliss. Enjoy your body, no matter the shape it has, it's perfect. Learn to love every aspect of it and you'll find men love the confidence you have in your own sexuality.
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