i'm 15 and i hate it too. i want it gone but im scared to go to my doctor for the same reason. it can be really uncomfortable but its not painful for me, it looks strange though and i'm worried its gonna put people off in the future :S when i'm 16 or 18 or whenever you can have it i think i'm going to go for the operation. advice for me too please?
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I've had asymmetrical elongation since as far back as I can remember. I'm now 33 and have never had a problem with it. I think one of the major factors in viewing this as a "problem" is the fact that we're bombarded with an extremely skewed perception of what beauty or "normal" is supposed to be, but we never learn to except different IS normal. I've known about my "nether parts" since I was a little girl and kind of naturally accepted that it was different, but different like my hair is curly and my cousin's is straight different. It's part of who we are as human women. Some people have hanging earlobes, some have attached... no biggie. You don't need to tell anyone about it because really, your friends aren't going to be all up in your vajayjay, dear. I don't know how much skin is actually 'hanging out', but there should be no reason why it can't enjoy a little rebellion unless it really does physically hurt. I've only now and then had to go in and "adjust" but for the most part, it accommodates itself with a regular pair of underwear. It's really only the uncomfortable pairs that I have to do a little extra and that's really just for hygiene (especially with short skirts on). If they're large enough to be noticeable even through a pair of jeans then try changing up your underwear styles until you find one that's both comfortable and supports you.
You should NOT feel ashamed of this. Don't let others' perceptions of what's "normal" push you to radically change yourself. There ARE negative consequences to the surgery. Wait. I have been with men who have loved it and with men who have learned to love it. But it's really all about how "I" feel about it. It's a part of who I am as much as my curly hair.
I hope you are feeling better about who you are and accepting that what you look like IS normal and acceptable to who ever loves you. It's not a disease and it's definitely not contagious.
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If they're long enough to be obvious through your clothing, you will have a long line of guys who love them, following you like a train. So let them show through and enjoy it.
Every vulva I've had the priviledge of knowing has been different and I loved them all. That's what makes life so enjoyable.
Every vulva I've had the priviledge of knowing has been different and I loved them all. That's what makes life so enjoyable.
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I am sorry that you are having problems. I am one of the many many men that love long lips. I think a close lipped lady is plain even if she has beauty n other ways
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Go see your doctor... But if only one is long wait till puberty mine was cut off on the right side and then puberty struck me n the other side free the same. I'm going to have it done to the other side cause I have to go commando :S it sucks and I hear ya about the panties.
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I'm the same, I turn 15 next week, I haven't told my family or friends, I'm too scared and embarrased, I don't want to have a boyfriend and I just don't know what to do, I wish there was some way it could go away by itself??
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