I know everyone is saying that a elongated and dark coloured labia is normal; but I am a lesbian and it makes me very uncomfortable. I'm embarrassed to let another woman see down there. Mine is very dark and can stretch quite a long ways. Is there anything I can do?
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Seriously, it is normal. I'm exactly the same way- dark and really stretchy. And don't you think it should be LESS uncomfortable to have another woman see, since most women know what REAL women look like (as opposed to those airbrushed pornstars). I've had men ask if mine were normal, because their sexual education has consisted of that airbrushed porn... way more uncomfortable and embarrasing. I guess labia reduction surgery is an option if this is really obstructing your life, but I really suggest embracing the way you are. You'll be happier for it.
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I thought someting may have been wrong with my labia until now. You have let me know that imnot alone. One of my labia is fine and the other is dark and 2ce the size. Its weird but normal and even hereditary. So dont worry bout it.
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I also have this exact same problem, and I'm a lesbian. My girlfriend once asked me why it was so big, and it embarrassed me because I didn't know. Now that I see it's not just me, I feel very relieved. I promise, it's not just you either.
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I wish women wouldn't worry so much about their bodies. I thought I was an ugly freak until I went to a YMCA in Toronto. My boyfriend at the time paid for the "private" section, which means that your gym, shower, hot tub, cold sauna, wet sauna and hot tub were all in a women's locker room. Other countries seem to have a much less problem with nudity than we do. Everyone was walking around naked except for me. I had never seen a naked women (other than myself, of course) before, except in movies so you can imagine what I thought normal was. Boy, did I feel better about my body when I left! Turns out, we all come in all shapes and sizes, most of us are prone to the pyhsics of gravity, and NO ONE is airbrushed. In short, I finally saw normal women. Don't feel bad about your labia. I saw all sorts that day and the longer seemed to outnumber the shorter. I don't know how this suddenly became embarassing for women when I saw so many women with it! You should embrace it and feel lucky! If yours, as you said, is a little stretchy - you are lucky! I would love to have your"problem." Mine are tiny and sex is VERY painful, particularly in the begining. Do you have this problem, too? Does any one else out there with small labia have this problem? It can be quite embarassing.
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