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hi guys im sorry of what u have been through,i had medical abortion when i was 8 weeks,went to a private doctor he inserted me to pills and i went home i spend the whole nyt with no cramps and i started bleeding thad very same nyt then the following week i went for a second visit thats when he cleaned me and the procedure took 5minutes.after that i bleed for 3to 4 days and i had to do shopping and other things the very same day.and now im fine not feeling anything bad
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Years ago something similar happened. After abortion felt awful for weeks...wrote that off to emotions. Then was getting a belly...was still pregnant. Then i had to actually induce labor. Since i had already had a procedure i didnt want to change my mind...no one could tell. Me if the baby would be deformed. Lawyers wouldnt sue...they said if there was a deformed baby born...maybe could sue. Crazy"
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So what eventually happened? I think the same exact thing is happening to me. but unfortunately its too early to take a hpt? So i'm just waiting to see what happens
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I see this was a while ago.. If u dont mind me asking what was the outcome? Were u still pregnant?
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After reading these posts i think the mother is the worst victum.
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Hi I was wondering if yu could help me I had an abortion at 13 weeks because of medical reasons and it was nearly three weeks ago and my test still says pregnant plus 5 weeks on a clear blue test ? Do you still think I could be pregnant?
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The second baby could have survived even with such trauma. There are several documented cases of this. Sad situation no matter what.

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Hi, I am 18 and have recently had a surgical abortion in feburary I was about 7 weeks gone, my pregancy was a shock as it wasn't planned I had my drink spike at a party and from this I found out I was pregant, so I decied to have a abortion due to this reason, after my abortion I was told the procedure was successful, 2 weeks after the abortion I was still bleeding and quite heavliy aswell. I went to the doctors and hospital and they both said I was fine it was normal. I have recently moved to my own house and become ill so I went to a different doctors who told me I was pregant and I went for a scan I was 30 weeks gone now I have to keep my baby as I am to far gone!! I have spoken to my mum and we both are confused to how it had failed and why the doctors and hospital did not see that I was still pregant!
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I can't really relate to having a failed abortion but after reading many posts under this topic my heart really goes out to all of you. I had an abortion last week and i have joined this website to help me realise im obviously not alone in this. I was actually shocked to see there was a link to this topic, and i somewhat feel selfish for not considering there are obviously worse scenarios than what i have experienced. You're all really brave for having to go through the horrible experience twice and stay strong! xo

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I feel the same way.
My last period are from the 7 october and I had protected sex on the 22nd almost my last fertile day.
He is sure that nothing happened to the condom, but after being two days late as my period are always on time I took a pregnancy test which was positive.
Because of our situations and things we both going through I went along with his decesion to not keeping it.
So I got an abortion Saturday 17th Nov they wasnt nice at all at the clinic.
The lady who did the ultrasound were pressing really strong as she couldnt see anything...
I got the surgical abortion woke up from it crying having bad cramps and were sent home 30mins later.
I was almost by myself during the whole process he came with me but havent say a single word to me before & after.
I went home cried the whole day and slept.
The sunday morning I woke up like everything was fine and I felt it was over.
Exept that this morning monday 19th nov I felt nauseous again couldn't stand people smell hungry but couldnt eat. Heavy headache my belly button started to itche

I feel so Guilty and I so regret my decision of aggreing with his.
I didnt take enough time to think by myself Im almost getting paranoid saying it didnt work but it is to early to say, but I feel like I would feel relieve if baby was still here...
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I myself have had an abortion 11/13 to find out they failed. I am horrified . Making the first decision was so hard but now I have to repeat this process again and pay again. Please how do u deal with this ? I feel like I will never be myself again.
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I got my abortion just over two weeks ago. The doctor had a lot of trouble seeing the fetus because I was barely 5 weeks along. He even made the comment "I don't know if we can do this because I can't see anything" but they did it anyways. I didn't go under for it and it hurt like hell. I had very little bleeding and mild cramps about three days after the procedure but it only lasted for two days. I swear I've been having morning sickness the past few days along with a few other symptoms. I'm very scared that I'm still pregnant. If I am, I can't get another abortion. I will keep the baby. My heart races just thinking about it. I'm going to go back to the clinic to get an ultrasound to make sure I'm not pregnant. I'm so scared. The chances of still being pregnant are so slim, but Plan B failed and I feel like this pregnancy was kind of meant to be...well we'll see.

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I had just had one 8 days ago, I just started bleeding a bit 5 days after. And I didn't get put to sleep either, I felt the whole thing and it was the worse pain. I was trying to hard not to move. It was horrible :( my plan b also failed on me. If you need someone to talk to I'm here. I'm still going through the after effects and have a check up in about a week, and I feel the same that I can't go through that again if anything was to be wrong.
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I had one about a week ago and I was put to sleep and everything like I dont remember anything at all just the doctor saying it was over. After the procedure i bled a little but then that was it i did not bleed anymore nor did I have any cramps. I still have the tender breasts and feel as if though im still pregnant, I was only 6 weeks and I feel as if though the procedure failed but I was wondering what symptoms evryone one of you had that had a failed abortion. and by the way it was the vacuum procedure. 

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you should wait till you're futher along because i was told 7 weeks is the perfect time. any earlier there's a high chance you'll have to undergo a 2nd procedure, like me. i'm so devastated. from my last period i was 6 weeks but according to the ultrasound i was 4 weeks but the clinic said they can still do the procedure and i asked if it's better for me to wait. they said no it should be fine but 7 weeks is the perfect time. i put my trust in the clinic and because i wanted to get it over with. i should've went with my gut feeling and just waited...because now i'm having to do this a 2nd time and its very emotional, stressful and frustrating.

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