These stories all sound just like mine. I was 10 weeks pregnant in Jan. 06 with baby #3, and I got a call from my OBGYN that my prenantal test showed a positivie chlamydia test. I had just gotten over a yeast infection as well. I was completely devastated at what that meant for my marriage. I went and took a second test that very same day and it was negative. My doctor feels it was a false postitive. My husband and I had never been with anyone else, and been married for 12 years at that point. It still hurts to think about. The baby is 2 now (a boy) and we are fine. Remember, medical tests can be wrong.
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Thanks guys I guess this is some what reassuring, my girlfriend and I have together for about 7months now and she about 12weeks pregnant and yesterday she got a letter in the mail saying she is positive for chlamydia she comes up to me and says we need to talk and she gives me the news and asked me if I cheated and I have been completely faithful to her so after I comfort her and stop her from crying I do some research trying to find ways or other ways of getting chlamydia most like 90% of it is saying that one of has to have to cheated. So I give up looking go to bed a d wake up thinking about it and in my head i'm thinking she cheated on me, so I start getting depressed crying even thinking the woman I love and whom going to have a child with has been unfaithful, so many thought creep in my head what if the baby is t my well just like all you we pointed the finger. I'm still baffled I don't know what to do but wait I have never gotten tested so I was trying to see if I could have had it for a couple of years now without knowing ..............
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In my situation, I had some symptoms like spots on my underwear and faint blood after urination. I got tested positive by my girlfriend was tested negative (see my post at http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/669461). I am 110% sure that I have not had sex with anybody else for more than 2 years. My symptoms appeared within 3 weeks after our last sexual encounter.
Thinking that she is lying on me (I did not get to see her results), I dumped her. However, she keeps on insisting that her results were negative and kept on calling me for a month but I was firm on my decision.
After reading the posts here, I now have guilty feelings if I did the right thing. I would like to pulse the readers on what you think about my situation and how I should have (or will) handle it.
Thanks.
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Thinking that she is lying on me (I did not get to see her results), I dumped her. However, she keeps on insisting that her results were negative and kept on calling me for a month but I was firm on my decision.
After reading the posts here, I now have guilty feelings if I did the right thing. I would like to pulse the readers on what you think about my situation and how I should have (or will) handle it.
Thanks.
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hi!!! a few yrs ago,i slept with some one on holiday,came home and gave my boyfriend chlamydia.... he tested positive!!! but to my surprise when i had the test done, it came back negative..... i dont know why this would happen..as i am 100% sure it was me that gave it 2 him...
i know you can have chlamydia for years without knowing!!! and we will never get answers to our mysteries... just don't ruin your relationship by blaming each other, put it behind you and get on with your lives...... XD
i know you can have chlamydia for years without knowing!!! and we will never get answers to our mysteries... just don't ruin your relationship by blaming each other, put it behind you and get on with your lives...... XD
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i had a sexual relationship wiv some one for bout 2 months, in which we had unprotected sex i got screened and was clear, then we finished and i got back wiv my ex. a yr later i was told the person i has a 2 month thing with had chlamydia so me and my partner(ex) went and got screened he had chlamydia and i was clear again? i don't know how this happened! we should of been rescreened but i didn't know the results could b wrong? i thought i had given it to my partner from my previous even though i had screened twice clear? its drivin me mad now i don't know if we even had it never mind where it came from??? my partner(ex) never cheated or went with anyone while we was split up either and if it was the case that he had cheated we both would of screened positive??? i just don't understand?
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 6 years. At the family planning clinic they kept quoting statistics and badgering me to get a chlamydia test, and even though I knew we were both totally faithful, I got the test done.
Two weeks later a get a phone call telling me to go back to the clinic because of my results. Apparently they split your urine sample and test it twice - one of mine came up positive and the other sample was negative.
How is that possible?!
So of course I'm thinking he's lied to me and when I ask him (nicely of course) he automatically asks me what I've been up to because he's only ever slept with me.
I was told to take the antibiotics etc as a precaution but I don't want my boyfriend thinking I've been lying to him. So he agreed to get tested to prove to me he's clean and i've sent off a second test to prove that i'm clean too! We're waiting for our results, and even though we've both been faithful there's definitely some tension there.
Its risky enough sending something like this off in the post and then you get stupid results like this!
Two weeks later a get a phone call telling me to go back to the clinic because of my results. Apparently they split your urine sample and test it twice - one of mine came up positive and the other sample was negative.
How is that possible?!
So of course I'm thinking he's lied to me and when I ask him (nicely of course) he automatically asks me what I've been up to because he's only ever slept with me.
I was told to take the antibiotics etc as a precaution but I don't want my boyfriend thinking I've been lying to him. So he agreed to get tested to prove to me he's clean and i've sent off a second test to prove that i'm clean too! We're waiting for our results, and even though we've both been faithful there's definitely some tension there.
Its risky enough sending something like this off in the post and then you get stupid results like this!
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i was recnetly tested for chlamydia and the clinic called me back saying that my result had come back positive so they retested the same swab which came back negative...?? why could this be???
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It's absoltuley crazy to see that this is happening to people everywhere. I don't understand how the labs can mess up on things like this. I am 18 weeks pregnant and I got a call from my doctor's office saying I tested positive so I called my boyfriend of 7 years and cussed him out. He went to the free clinic later on that day and tested negative. I was thinking the same thing as everyone else how is that possible. Even if I cheated we have unprotected so he would have gotten it from me. There's no way that I would have something and he not have it. I'm not that type of female, I haven't slept with anyone else so now thanks to all of the posts I know something was wrong with the test so I will take the antibiotics anyway but the doctor's office has some explaining to do!
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hello everyone, wow! i've had the same problem as most of you have stated except i had tested positive for gonnorhea. i couldn't believe what i was hearing when my doc was telling me this horrible news.
i was preparing to beat the c**p out of my boyfriend of one year because i couldn't believe he would cheat on me! neway i tld him the news and he thought i had cheated on him - which was not true. he went to get tested
the next day and his results came back negative - for EVERYTHING!! so this heightened his doubt in my faithfulness to him :-( we decided to stay together but i can't help but think that he still doubts me
i got in contact with the last guy i had dated and slept with before i met my current boyfriend and his tests were also negative!
just how accurate are the tests for chlamydia and gonnorhea?! is it possible that my positive test was inaccurate?
i was preparing to beat the c**p out of my boyfriend of one year because i couldn't believe he would cheat on me! neway i tld him the news and he thought i had cheated on him - which was not true. he went to get tested
the next day and his results came back negative - for EVERYTHING!! so this heightened his doubt in my faithfulness to him :-( we decided to stay together but i can't help but think that he still doubts me
i got in contact with the last guy i had dated and slept with before i met my current boyfriend and his tests were also negative!
just how accurate are the tests for chlamydia and gonnorhea?! is it possible that my positive test was inaccurate?
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My doctor has given me a course of antiobtics to clear chlamydia and told me not to have sex for two weeks, but i have slept with my partner before the two weeks, what happens now?
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Well listen to this-I was just tested and shown positive for chlamydia and I haven't been sexually active for 10 years! This has got to be a false positive or I have another type of infection going on...I know that false positives are not the norm but they do happen...I think I am one of them!
"I know for a fact that neither of us has strayed outside of our relationship so how can she test positive after we both tested negative and took antibiotics to treat it as well. I have tried to explain this to my doctor and of course he looked at me as if I or my partner had cheated...which couldn't be further from the truth. Can anyone shed some light on to how this could have happened? Thankyou
"I know for a fact that neither of us has strayed outside of our relationship so how can she test positive after we both tested negative and took antibiotics to treat it as well. I have tried to explain this to my doctor and of course he looked at me as if I or my partner had cheated...which couldn't be further from the truth. Can anyone shed some light on to how this could have happened? Thankyou
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hey i am currently 23 weeks pregnant, have been tested for chlamydia 5 times all which came back negative. my midwife keeps giving me condoms (bit late dont ya think) and these tests for chlamydia. i took one a few days ago and it came back positive. i havent even been having sex with my boyfriend, only once or twice a week ago! if i have been testing negative 5 times the last test was 6 weeks ago and neither of us have cheated not even barely had sex ourselves! then wtf is going on??? im changing midwives lol i get a retest tomorrow and i hope it comes back negative because this is so confusing!!!
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It seems to me that no one can answer. It's like this: my husband and I have been together for 14 years. I had my last pap in Nov. It was neg. for STDs and this time it was positive for Chlamydia and we are so confused. There could be no way that either of us could have it because we have been faithful to each other (I know what you are thinking and to be honest with you, he has been literally by my side for the last 6 months continuously because of some other family and personal things. The gyn office thinks that we are s**m because of this disease but my primary told me that spotting from a new pill can have some affect on something (whether it could cause a false positive I dont know). My primary's office is questioning the test and wants me to re-test but I cant because I started my menstral cycle and it cannot be tested during the menstral cycle. How does this work? If I am spotting and it comes up strange but I cannot have it tested because I am on the rag, why not? I simply do not understand. There is NO way that he could have been unfaithful or been dormant for the last 14 years.. when we were both virgins when we started... please someone tell me how this is possible...
Since my last pap I have found out that I have hypothyroid disease and my hormones have been ridiculous and all of my meds have been so erratic and I have been switched from hormone to hormone and pill to pill could that have any affect on anything? Please help. I am sooo desperate.
Since my last pap I have found out that I have hypothyroid disease and my hormones have been ridiculous and all of my meds have been so erratic and I have been switched from hormone to hormone and pill to pill could that have any affect on anything? Please help. I am sooo desperate.
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Reading all your stories has made me feel so much better... I have been with my partner since June 2008 and he went 2 prison in October.. We had slept together on MANY occassions... I'm only 20 so i got the letter through the door about sending off a chlamydia test.. so i thought i would do it. It came back POSITIVE!! I was gutted.. I took the tablets 2 clear it and when my boyfriend phoned from prison i told him about it, knowing i have been 100% faithful with him... He did a test and was given tablets straight away.
Today he phoned and said he tested negative. He says he trusts me, hes being calm about it which i dont understand, but ino it must be running through his head that I've cheated.. I've been thinking that hes gotta be playing with my head, tryna catch me out? But he's getting frustrated and swearing on his families lives he isn't lying to me and he says he is going to send me the papers.
How is this possible?!!!? Could one of us have a wrong result? Someone told him he must have it before he got with me, he got tested then and it came back negative aswell!!
Today he phoned and said he tested negative. He says he trusts me, hes being calm about it which i dont understand, but ino it must be running through his head that I've cheated.. I've been thinking that hes gotta be playing with my head, tryna catch me out? But he's getting frustrated and swearing on his families lives he isn't lying to me and he says he is going to send me the papers.
How is this possible?!!!? Could one of us have a wrong result? Someone told him he must have it before he got with me, he got tested then and it came back negative aswell!!
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A few years ago I displayed symptoms of an infection to the Urethra. My partner of 7 months and I went and got tested, the first time in quite a while for us both. We had been having unprotected sex for some time and I came back positive for Chlamydia, she came back negative! I was confused how I could have no symptoms for 7 months and then this and why she was negative. On top of that I then developed Reactive arthritis. I got over it and we moved on, I have no reason to doubt her fidelity or she would have been positive, but as a result I get tested every 6 months.
I have had 3 or 4 negative results and been in a new relationship for over a year now. Because of my history my partner was tested in the beginning and was also negative. However, a month ago I developed another infection. I tested non-conclusive for Chlamydia and my partner tested positive, and once again I have reactive arthritis. I am sure neither of us has contracted it elsewhere (I know it's a possible as with anyone, but I really do trust her implicitly, especially as she knows how much the reactive arthritis affects me) and we are both very confused. If it has always been there, why no symptoms, and clear results.
I'm not sure whether it can be dormant, results were wrong or just that other infections can be wrongly diagnosed or 'mimick' Chlamydia. We'll probably never know but nice to know we're not alone.
I have had 3 or 4 negative results and been in a new relationship for over a year now. Because of my history my partner was tested in the beginning and was also negative. However, a month ago I developed another infection. I tested non-conclusive for Chlamydia and my partner tested positive, and once again I have reactive arthritis. I am sure neither of us has contracted it elsewhere (I know it's a possible as with anyone, but I really do trust her implicitly, especially as she knows how much the reactive arthritis affects me) and we are both very confused. If it has always been there, why no symptoms, and clear results.
I'm not sure whether it can be dormant, results were wrong or just that other infections can be wrongly diagnosed or 'mimick' Chlamydia. We'll probably never know but nice to know we're not alone.
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