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Hi Aceman900,
* Have you spoken to your mum about your grandfather's behaviour? She may be able to shed some light on why he treats you differently to the others. You say she has a "great relationship" with him, so he may have said something to her.
* How long has he been avoiding you & making excuses not to spend time with you? Did you once have a close relationship with your grandfather & then things changed? Or has he always acted this way towards you?
The reason I ask is because something negative has been said about you by another family member or perhaps, your grandfather has heard something about you & taken it in the wrong way. They are possibilities.
* Do you feel you might be able to talk to him directly? Drop round when you know he'll be in- offer to help him out with something & then open up about how you feel. You never know- there could be a perfectly logical explanation for his avoidance...and it may have nothing to do with you personally.
Whatever is going on, I hope you & your grandfather find resolution soon. I believe that the relationship between grandparents & grandchildren are one of the most important throughout the life. And it's a crying shame when that relationship doesn't work out, for whatever reasons.
Good luck & my best wishes.
V
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