It has been awhile since my husband & I haven't had sex. The doctor gave him a prescription for pills but he rather use the money for vodka and beer instead of getting the pills filled. Go figure. When he drinks it 's just gets harder for him to have a erection so I get no sex. I know he isn't on the net looking at porn or going out looking for other women cause he is always with me 24/7.
I just feel like he would want a skinny woman. I weigh 209 I have talked this over with him and sometimes he says I'm full of sh*t or just doesn't answer me about it. I feel down about myself cause I'm not one of those skinny woman he would like. When we walk down the street I can see he is looking around and I have threaten to look for a guy just to talk too on Facebook and I might do it too. He knows I have ''guy game buddies'' and I have told him it is nothing and he lets it go. I told him if he doesn't shut up and talking about other women I'm going to do something he ain't going to like.
What can I do to bring myself up and not be down all the time ?
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Hi,
threatening your husband that you are going to do "something he wont like" is just going to cause a conflict. If a girl told me something like that i'd be furious. Same goes for him.
Well, pushing it and constantly asking him about it won't make you feel better. I think you should cool off a little. Pretend that you are not interested in sex , and that will grab his attention.
How long have you guys been married? Was it always like that or did it start to happen recently?
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we have been married for 35 years and when we first met we were all over each other and for a long while now he has no interest in sex. I just feel unwanted in bed. He will try to get himself off with no prevail cause he says he is numb and doesn't want any help with it. I will try to cool off as long as I can.
I use to cut on my arms but do I have to do this just to get attention again ? I really have NO intention to doing this,just threating him with it ?
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