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Female exhibitionism, my nipples started to be hard very often so I stopped wearing bras

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Towards the end of my puberty, my nipples started to be hard very often. I've got large nipples and when they're hard the areola also shrivels and makes the nipple stand out still more. I developed quite thing for it and started to talk about it as if it were a problem for me just in order to be able to tell people about it and sometimes even show my nipples. At the beginning I wore very simple non padded cotton bras in order for my nipples to show through. At 16 I started scraping the inside of my bras where the nipples were and made believe my mum and my friends that it was my nipples doing that because they were so hard. When I got nearly through the fabric my mum used to pad it out for me but sometimes she didn't notice until I had made a hole where my nipples stood out. At 17 I stopped wearing bras altogether pretending that I was fed up with wearing them out like that because of my nipples. Since then I took every opportunity to draw the attention to them by openly fiddling with them, to show them off or even to get topless if possible. Even from 9th grade on every boy in my classes must have seen my breasts. I particularly enjoyed playing strip poker with friends, both boys and girls, and always started by taking off my top. Friends made fun of me and said I was an exhibitionist. I knew I was of course but it was only after some time that I started taking pleasure also in acknowledging that I was, which in turn led me to bring up the topic more often. After I stopped wearing bras I started to simply ask the friends I was staying with if it was ok for them if I took off my top explaining that because of my exhibitionism I felt this urge. I also developed a kind of tic constantly fiddling with my nipples whether I wore a top or not. The rest I had the impression to control but the fiddling I soon did not. My mum noticed of course the changes in my behavior and asked me if I wanted to see someone in order to talk about it. So I went to a psychotherapist but I quit after a few sessions.   When I moved and started to live on my own I started to show off also the rest of my body. Today I'm 24 and I kind of live a double life. During day, with my usual habits and tics, in public wearing transparent stuff, fiddling with my nipples and so on and in the house I share with 4 other people being right out naked. I told them about it before I joined them and they didn't have a problem with it, none of them is very shy about their own occasional nudity. In the evening I try to go to places where I might be topless or naked. It really has become the compulsion I used to pretend it was. I have a lot of sexual relations but no serious commitment and undressing has become the only way for me to get thoroughly aroused. I don't want things to change though, not for the moment anyway. 

Guest

So my parents are always home and there is no choice for toys so what should I use? Btw I like to focus on the clit
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Guest

So my parents are always home and there is no choice for toys so what should I use? Btw I like to focus on the clit
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Guest

So my parents are always home and there is no choice for toys so what should I use? Btw I like to focus on the clit
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Guest

Are you still out there? This is quite a story. Fortunately I didnt develop the compulsion but I feel with you to a certain point. Talking about any sexually related part of my body always gets me turned on. It started during puberty with my friends and for a long time I only talked about thèses things to them. It was easy, everyone was insecure and wanted to talk about her problems so at the beginning it was natural but later I was one of the only ones to go on talking about stuff like that. I was helped by the fact that my areolas had remained puffy so I usually asked if anyone thinks they will get normal often asking friends to check if they think there was a change and I pinched my areolas in order to get my nipples hard and said that it was a shame that they were never visible with the areolas being so puffy and so on. Or when I was staying witha friend I undressed in the evening into a short top and I wear no knickers saying that I didn't need to because my lips are so small that my pubic hair hides them anyway. But actually when I got really aroused and my lips swell you can see it very well and of course I was all too happy my friends noticed and said "I believe you have a problem down there " or just stared. So it was things like that. My nipples are nearly never hard, not even during sex, I really need to pinch them, so it"s only areolas but that you didn't see through a bra and I always wear bras. But I liked to talk about it and to show myself naked when possible. I always tried to make it seem casual and at school I only did it in front of other girls. But later I did exactly th esame thing with boys, talking about my body and when I slept over after a party in the morning I used to come to breakfast with a bra and a top but without anything else and acting completely natural until someone commented on it. Depending whether I was already aroused or not then I repeated the thing with my small lips and my pubic hair or if I was visibly aroused I said that it's only because in the morning my lips are often swollen as they can see and that knickers hurt then. And if someone asked why I was wearing a bra I could say that it's only out of habit and then I explained that he's right because since I have no visible nipple anyway because of my puffy areolas there's Nothing to hide anyway unless my nipples got hard but that that's rare. And usually then I took my bra off, sometimes asking if they want me to get it off, sometimes taking it off like that. But of course even without a nipples my areolas are very visible if I dont' wear a bra. So these are some scenarios I imagined and I go through repeatedly with various people. It's a lot of fun to me and I often masturbate thinking over what I had done in circumstances like that.
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Guest

sounds like you want your nipples to be noticed. you need to find someone to suck them.

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Guest

No at least for me the thing with showing myself is not that I want to be touched at all. That's also why I always play the part of the casual conversation and so. It's arousing to everyone and that's fine but that's it. Last time I did the coming down in the morning without knickers thing I was at a friend's (woman) and there was a couple and another boy who'd stayed for the night. The couple came down dressed but the boy and my friend were in pyjamas and I had my lips swollen and he got hard and he tried to hide it so it was me who take the initiative and I said so I'm not the only one to be all swollen in the morning and ask him if it hurts or is uncomfortable when it touches the fabric when it's erect because me it hurts and that's why I came down like this. And he says that it's uncomfortable but that's all and my friend says he shall feel welcome to take off his trousers if he wants to and he hesitates for a moment but does not but stops hiding. But nobody touched me and I wouldn't want it. Sometimes even speaking about my body is enough for me, doesn't even need showing.
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Guest

Hi for me it starte d just the same way but I only show my boobs and I waited for that until after 11th grade. Acutally I covered from 9th to 11th but before Iwoudnt say it was exhibitionsim after it clearly was. During the time i covered of course i didnot in the changing rooms. But then in 12th grade I started grdually abandoning weraing a bra and when I started college I was wearing else tight or even transparent stuff and lose tank tops where my boobs could even fall out. I still really love to show nipples and areolas but that"s it and I've not turned into a general exhibitinist
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Guest

the funny thing in all this is and I experienced it myself how easily friends are ok with it
I've never been body shy and when adolescent I was a little bit exhibitionist as a lot of teenagers are, I've read it's part of the process of puberty actually or at least it may be
but it usually stops after puberty but for me it went on and it really started after puberty, when I turned 17, 18.
I've also simply asked friends with whom I stayed, girls and boys actually if I may be naked or at least take my top off because I was exhibitionist and no one literally no one ever stopped me
they asked questions about it about how I feel but allowed me very freely to act as I wanted
In public I'm braless and it also started for me with the wish to have my nipples show, they're hard so much it'd be a shame to hide them lol
but when I'm showing off naked to friends I get aroused and I need- a towel to sit on and that makes of course for other comments which arouse me in return
I know that I turn people on, they tell me, I've got a homosexual friend she's asked me to let her touch me but boys usually get hard and don't dare ask anything
anyway for me it's great fun and I'm glad I have the nipples I have which brought me to it
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Guest

interesting topic
i've never felt the urge to show my boobs during puberty but with all the braless fashion I wanted to try and I started end of july my breasts are very firm real llike hard so that was not going to stop me and I started with t shirts but dark ones but after a couple of days I wanted to try also light tops and I felt kind of excited doing it so I went after only a week for tight things to show my nipples (I particularly get a kick out of it when they get hard because everything changes and they end up standing out real thick and long). I also do transparent stuff but that's no real treat because I'm black and you don't see the areola. so I confess I"ve turned into exhibitionist now/ my friends noticed of course and think it's awesome but I really regret that you cannot see my nipples and my areolas, I mean you see only the shape, not the colour. f
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Guest

The whole "free the nipple" thing feels suspicious to me because, yeah, I like to show my nipples, in loose tank tops where my breast can fall out sideways or in low-cut tops where you see them from above whenever I bend forward, and I also love to have people notice through my clothes when they're hard, but I know all this is exhibitionism and strongly sex-related, so I can't understand that it could be otherwise for other women. But maybe it is, I don't know. I never had to wear a bra, I mean on the one hand my mum didn't force me to and on the other hand my boobs are small and firm, and I developed this preference for showing off during my late adolescence early adulthood. It's not that my nipples were hard abnormally often but they are big anyway so you notice them whatever the state they're in.
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freshman noise

Free the nipple has nothing to do with exhibitionism or sex related its about why is it an offence for a woman to have bare nipples in public but not for a man, a woman can have her breast exposed as long as the nipple is covered.
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Guest

Hi, I've got these small boobs which really stayed firm for a long time (I'm 37 and I only start getting a proper fold beneath them and I love to get them noticed. Unfortunately I don't have much of a nipple and my areolas are large but light coloured so there's nothing to show through clothes, but I never wear bras and I love deep-cut clothes which allow a look inside. But basically I take every opportunity to be simply topless. That used to be only changing rooms and sometimes in stores trying on clothes, on the beach, and of course with my friends at home. When I moved to NY ten years ago I knew there was already all this stuff going on about the possiblity to go topless in the streets but it took all the free the nipple stuff to get it going it seems to me. I started shyly when that case was judged in 2015, but for the last two years I've been able to do it more openly and I now take my shirt off whenever I'm outside. The hardest thing for me is to make believe I'm cool with it even when i'm actually aroused. It's great fun.
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Guest

so is this actually really true that you may go topless in NY?
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subscribed mark

Yes. The court expanded that to the whole state not just NYC.
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