Female...large amount of skin/fat leading to vagina

Im surprised that Im not the only one. I thought it was only me. I am so ashamed of it though, I cant wear tights cause you could see the bump & I dont want people to look at it & be like oh look at that girl she has a fat vagina or it looks like she has a penis. On some pants i wear when i sit down or just even stand up it looks like i have a penis & its just embarrasing. I was planning on having sex with this guy I've been in love with for over a year but Im so ashamed & think he might be turned off....

i am so relieved that i am not the only one. i have the same exact problem. i never thought that it was normal, but i guess that it is. ive been looking arround about this for a while now and i realized that so many more people have the same "problem" that we do and we just dont know it. also when i went for my yearley physical the doctor was just talking to herself and she said that it was normal. so dont worry about it because if a doctor says that it is normal then, it is normal. ive always been self consious about being naked with my boyfriend because of this reason and he has seen me naked before so i guess it dosent matter to guys because he has never said anything about it. if a guy says something about it and says mean stuff about it and judges you because of it then he obviously dosent deserve you, because im pretty shure whoever it is has a flaw to, everybody does. its normal and dont worry about what other people think because you are beautiful no matter what anyone elts says.:-)<3 

you shouldnt be ashamed of this. i have the same "problem" and my boyfriend dosent mind it at all. if your boyfriend does then he dosent deserve you. if anything he will think that you are beautiful no matter what

I'm just wondering did you ever get surgery? If so how much did it cost you and how was the entire experience because I know exactly how you feel I have the same idea

OMG UR 13 AND YOU ARE THINKING OF HAVING SEX?!?! BADDDDD IDEA!!!!!!

im almost thirteen and i have the same problem, it all started in the beginning of the school year and now im afraid to change in front of all the other girls in  locker room because i think they'll judge me, make fun of me, or think dirty of me. i hate having this fat on me!! i used to always wear bikinis and not be afraid to show my body but now i feel so insecure and ashamed of my body. im really skinny and im always exercising and being  active, i just still dont know why this is all happening to me. i know its not just me who has this problem but sometimes it feels like it and it feels like i've been cursed or something. :'c

Well mine hangs down so far it touches my ass and has to be lifted up to wipe pee pees. I cant even play with myself and I have dingles. My boyfriend got poop on his popsicle and when he called me on it I had to tell him it was because he was a gay.

i am a 14 year old girl with a fat vagina i ain't skinny i am fat. and i really hate it and i am so self conscious about my weight as it is and this has made me more. i used to wear a tight pencil skirt and i came home one day and it was really noticeable and i was so worried so i stopped wearing it. nobody has said anything but i look in the mirror in my pants and it is massive! it looks like i have a penis and balls and its embarrassing when i am older i think i would get teased and boys wouldn't wanna have sex with me but i read some of your replies to boys liking fat vaginas is that true? cause i don't want them to say sh*t about me to there friends and i get teased about it:( 

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I'm 22 and for all the young girls who posted this makes me feel sad cuz I remember what it was like being so upset. I have the same issue and ur right it does suck but I have a boyfriend and he loves me for me not my vagina... Wear tight dark bathing suit bottoms wear cute shorts over ur bottoms or even a sash. No one will ever see it and I no it sucks in a bathing suite but work with it. We are who we are the more confident u are in urself the happier ull be it took me a long time to realize that.

Im a guy and I feel like there is a bit of confusion going on here so I will try to clarify. I cant really say for most guys but, in my case I dated women with this layer of fat and ones without. Personally I like the padding and find it attractive, this doesnt mean you are overweight, it is simply an area of the body. I asked my mother about it too and she said it eases the pain caused by the male and female pubic bone friction. I agree with her since I felt soreness from girls without the padding. I believe the term is called "fat mons" or so I heard. I hope this helps.

I too have a fat cat. I've always had it even when I was super skinny. I only find it annoying when it comes to bathing suits and tight pants. Otherwise, never heard any complaints from the guys. Girls/ ladies, love what you have! In the words of lady gaga, I was " born this way."

im 35 and have had no complaints about the fat cat. In fact, my ex actually came up with the Description "fat cat." That that was right before he dove his head down there for the first time. He was happy with my kitty and so were the others Exes. 

Very few people have perfect bodies. Focus on the parts of your body that you do like. Guys are most attracted to confident women. Learn to love what good gave ya! 

I also have the same large area only had one comment that ever bothered me, if a guy is superficial it may bother him and if that's the car he doesn't deserve you anyways. Definitely nice to know I'm not the only one lol

My ex said phat pretty hot and tempting lol

Hey I know this was posted a while back but I read your post and I feel the exact same way and I am so depressed about it.. I am 5'6 145lbs but I have extra fat..like hand fulls of fat around my hips and butt area. I also feel like I have a fat vagina because I have seem pics before and mine doesnt look that tight at all! My husband doesnt make me feel attracted and im just lost and hate myself. Was there anything you did to fix this or overcome it?