Hi,
I'm 15 yrs old and yesterday afternoon i had sex for the first time......
My boyfriend and i used a condom....wild he was feeling pleasure i was getting hurt by him...
He begin slowly and he kept going slowly......
I wanted 2 cry really bad but i knew it was gonna hurt,so i didn't....
We tried it like 3 times but i still wasn't feeling anything....
All i was feeling was pain
Why wasn't i feeling pleasure and instead i was feeling alot of pain?
I'm 15 yrs old and yesterday afternoon i had sex for the first time......
My boyfriend and i used a condom....wild he was feeling pleasure i was getting hurt by him...
He begin slowly and he kept going slowly......
I wanted 2 cry really bad but i knew it was gonna hurt,so i didn't....
We tried it like 3 times but i still wasn't feeling anything....
All i was feeling was pain
Why wasn't i feeling pleasure and instead i was feeling alot of pain?
Try lube. Foreplay. Different condoms.
the pain will go away eventually. some girls have pain the first few times they have sex - usually due to being tight and so much stimulation causes pain!
try and relax to help your natural lubrication and take things slow, it will pass eventually :-)
(btw, you do realise it is illegal to have sex under the age of 16 (well in the UK it is!?!?!) your boyf could get into big trouble)
try and relax to help your natural lubrication and take things slow, it will pass eventually :-)
(btw, you do realise it is illegal to have sex under the age of 16 (well in the UK it is!?!?!) your boyf could get into big trouble)
It hurts alot but feels better after