Um i had sex with my bf for the first time like 8 days ago. it was both our first time we used a condom and then after a couple of hours ive had frquent urination, i still have it now but ive been nauseous and im having like brown vaginal discharge im suppose to be ovulating tmwr!! help im really scaed!
Sounds like cystitis from your first sex. It is common, and should clear up on its own, but drink plenty of water. Avoid sex until it has cleared up. Meanwhile take some OTC painkillers - paracetamol or ibuprofen. As it is your first time, it is best to see a medical practitioner. Where do you live?
oh ok so its nothing serious? and new jersey
It does not appear to be. Mild cystitis usually clears up in a few days. More severe cystitis may need treatment with antibiotics. I expect you will be covered by your medical insurance, so see you doctor anyway as this is your first episode of cystitis (as recommended here in the UK)
Cystitis is more common in women because they have a short urethra. The urethra's opening is also located very close to the anus, which makes it easy for bacteria from the anus to reach the bladder and cause an infection (needing antibiotic treatment).