So Ive finally decided to have sex and I did on
New Years, I know typical but it just in the moment.
So he was going in me and I felt so much pain
The most pain Ive ever felt. And as he kept going
in it hurt and hurt. So he saw that it was hurting me and he
went out. But I said maybe he should try again maybe it would
get better, but it didnt. The same pain occured.
So what I want to know is what this whole pain is about?
And should I try again maybe to get my vagina use to it?
And there was blood on the condom... does that mean anything?
If anyone can answer this for me, it be appericiated greatly. Ive been
questioning this for a while now
Thank You,
Dessert.
New Years, I know typical but it just in the moment.
So he was going in me and I felt so much pain
The most pain Ive ever felt. And as he kept going
in it hurt and hurt. So he saw that it was hurting me and he
went out. But I said maybe he should try again maybe it would
get better, but it didnt. The same pain occured.
So what I want to know is what this whole pain is about?
And should I try again maybe to get my vagina use to it?
And there was blood on the condom... does that mean anything?
If anyone can answer this for me, it be appericiated greatly. Ive been
questioning this for a while now
Thank You,
Dessert.
There is a piece of skin in the entrance to your vagina. This piece of skin is called the "hymen". This is where the term "popping your cherry" comes from if you've ever heard that before. When he was pushing inside you, he was tearing that piece of skin to enter. That is why there was pain, and blood. It's completely normal. You may need to do this a few more times before it becomes enjoyable, but it will be worth it. Just go very slowly and use lots of lube and in no time it wont hurt at all.