how did what I said help you realizing that you are straight?? and why are you so mean with me? I was just expressing my point of view. I don't want to be with a girl, there is nothing appealing for me there, I suffer from ocd and I almost don't even know what my name is anymore! What you just said is something no one who knows how OCD is, would ever say, because this will make me and any other OCD sufferer spike for days. but I know you rpobably don't care about it!!
anyway I'm glad you know what you are, most of the time I know too, deep down I always know that when this sh*t will pass I 'll be normal again (saying normal, because being straight is normality for what concerns my desires).
But if you suffer from OCD you should know that experimenting is not the way to deal iwth it. It could actualy make it worse. anyhow wish you the best of luck
1. Get off the boards.
2. Every time you get a what if I'm a lesbian moment, just let it be, shrug it off.
3. You are straight. If you we're a lesbian you would have always known. Just ask your step sister how she "found out" (please do share her story it might help others suffering)
4. Go out with friends, even if you don't feel like it. That's the first step to recovery. Go and face your fears.. Without experimenting, that will just confuse you more and make you end up hating yourself at the end.
5. If you meet a guy that interests you and he likes you back, get to know him and see what happens.
6. Again, you are straight.
Hope this helps!
Thank you so so so so so much. I've been so depressed. I know your lesbian but do you think Jacob from twilight is at all hott in any way? Please don't take offense I'm trying to be one hundred percent sure this is hocd. He is the only one that I can agree with myself is super hott. But sometimes not even then. I am 15 and have been worrying about being lesbian or bi since october of 2012 btw never have it a thought up until then.
Thank you thank thank you! I'm seriously crying with relief. I want my old life back. Do you know how long it will be before I start to be atracted to guys again. Besides Jacob black from twilight lol. I'm 15 btw and have been worrying myself two ulcers since October of 2012. I actually have ulcers lol cuz of to much stress my doctor told me. THANK YOU I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER. :)))))
Thank you so much, I have been having these obtrusive thoughts for so long and have been addicted to porn, I am 16 and these thoughts have made me to start getting depressed. I'm glad I'm not alone and I'm staying away from porn. Thank you so much!!V
Wait Wait Wait! You're a LESBIAN....& you watch MALE-ON-MALE porn? I thought lesbians weren't attracted to men? What are lesbians doing watching porno flicked with MEN in them?
LOL You are one confused individual.
THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS! I've been struggling with HOCD for a whileeee now just because i was watching lesbian porn i thought i was a lesbian. Even since I was a baby I've been totaaallly boy crazy so it really never made sense to me why i was "afraid" of being a lesbian. But now I know I was overanalyzing things.
ok thank you but i'm still not sure I'm not sure i'f i'm gay or have hocd see a couple months ago I got these thoughts of men having sex and i was scared of them and didn't want them and it was hard for me to go to sleep cause the kept coming in to my head and so i had to block them out so it would take a while for them to go away and so i would go to sleep.before i go on I just want to say i have been watching porn ever since I was 8 or nine and it all ways aroused me now It doesn't and i just masturbated to gay porn for the first time and it aroused and i am really scared and after i masturbated to it i was freaking out i haedded outside to calm down. ok what i'm trying to say is iI had all the symptoms of HOCD but I feared all the thoughts I tried to fight them off but now i can't cause i get turned on by gay porn and I still fear them and I also feared what everybody would think about me if i was gay gay cause you know how it is in jr high but n ow i get turned on by gay porn why? and will it go away and gay thoughts come to my to head even when i don't want them but i get turned on by them why 3 and half months ago i thought i was as strait as you get but now i'm getting turned on by gay porn wow is it HOCD and if you want to hear the symptoms i had just ask
YOU ARE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON! Thank you so much! I have been fretting that I was gay for several months and I honestly felt that I couldn't enjoy life anymore! I was searching everywhere on the internet, but there were many idiots who didn't understand my situation.
I honestly thought there were many things wrong with me when I started to fear about being gay. I loved boys ever since I was a little girl and I had many dreams of marrying boys but after a guy who was gay talked to us about homosexuality, I started to freak out. He said that when he became 13, he started to feel weird. Now I am also a girl, so after talking to some close people I trusted, they said there was nothing to worry about, since attractions for lesbians are different than attractions with gays. They said that lesbians can't turn lesbian overnight, but when gay guys hit puberty, they can.
Guys are my life and I can't imagine a life without them. I want to flirt with many guys (in a good way) and I want to marry a man. This gay issue has been bothering me so much, I felt that I couldn't even talk to my friends who were girls, because of my fear of turning gay by talking to them. When I asked myself "Could I ever be attracted to this person?" I honestly wanted to throw up and gag. I'm sure you probably feel the same about asking yourself about that with guys.
I have no problem with homosexuals themselves. They are people like us too and there are many homosexual people out there who are great, kind and wonderful to get to know. You are one of them! The only problem I have is being gay myself, since all my dreams involve romance with guys. From this article, I can tell you feel the same anxiety about being straight.
And I'm sure that if I'm scared about being bi, it probably means I'm not bi.
Seriously, you really got me back into shape. Now I finally know how the mind of a homosexual works. Again, I have no problem with homosexuals themselves, there are a lot of homosexuals that are great! It's just that we all have different tastes. Seeing that you are so intelligent, you probably understand.
Well it is very hard for us Straight Guys looking for a Good Woman these days.
you remind me of me a lot when i was young, so confused , odd things taking me over ,,over thinking everything and in the end you will look back and think what was i stressing about , the things your driving yourself mad with are what ifs and what people think and usually people don't really care what your sexuality is these days, i have a nephew who is alcoholic because he didnt tell us he was gay, he was shocked that we all said we had guessed and it was no big thing for us, and as for the what ifs i lived them every day and the next day and so on and none of it has ever happened at all dont waste your life worrying , live it ...just remember you are unique and you need to be you , whoever that is