Hello everyone. I recently had sex with a girl a couple of days ago, and for the first time ever, my frenulum ripped. This was both a shock to me and her, because we had no idea what was going on. I started to freak out that I was bleeding from my penis, but after awhile the bleeding stopped. The next day my penis was VERY sore. I read up online all about this and thankfully, I found it was a common thing for uncircumcised men. The only question I have is that I believe my frenulum isn't fully ripped? Based off what I read online, everyone's frenulum completely ripped off, but mine still seems to be attached except for the top part where it de-attached. Being that I don't want to go through the embarrassment of having my penis bleed during sex AGAIN, is there anything else I can do to get the ripping over with? Should I masterbate when it heals in hopes of it ripping again? Will it not rip anymore? Do I have to consult a doctor?
I guess you have to decide for yourself what you want to do.
Mine ripped shortly after I got married, when it healed it was just as short as before as I allowed the ends to go back together. The next time it tore I put some toilet paper in there so the ends would not get back together and the increased length was great. It tore several more times and each time I did the same. Eventually it stopped tearing and it is gone. It is as if it had never been there and that is terrific. My foreskin can be retracted all the way with no restriction at all and therefore no pain.
I let mine do that by itself while having sex with my wife but I suppose I could have done it on purpose with aggressive masturbation. I could have also gone to a surgeon but back then that was not much of an option. If You do go to a surgeon make sure he/she does the job completely. I have read about some unhappy results from people who had it done but still had tightness because it wasn't cut enough. Mine has been so nice for so many years because it goes back all the way with no pain at all.