Hi my name is John, and I think I have problem.
Everytime I have sex with my girlfriend, and we fall asleep together I tend to get turned on again. And then im afraid to wake her up, so I masterbate right next to her, while watching her move and it really turns me on. I ejaculate on her back or butt, and the next morning she always asks me if something is on her back and I say no, because I lie.
Is there something wrong with me?
Everytime I have sex with my girlfriend, and we fall asleep together I tend to get turned on again. And then im afraid to wake her up, so I masterbate right next to her, while watching her move and it really turns me on. I ejaculate on her back or butt, and the next morning she always asks me if something is on her back and I say no, because I lie.
Is there something wrong with me?
you should tell her man or stop doing that,who knows she might me okay with it and then you can do it and wont feel wrong about it.
I can't imagine she would be okay with it!
Either you tell her or stop it! It's not nice at all.
Either you tell her or stop it! It's not nice at all.
hmmm u do that... well nothing is wrong with u jus that she just might not take a shower and get it off ill a visitor or some one comes and says "wats that on ur back OMFG is that" u get the pont eh but nothing is wrong with u all men like sex and like to do it lots soo u just cant help to masterbate right next to her she may figure out 1 day or wake up while ur doing that and BANG UVE GOT HER RIGHT ONTOP OF U ROLLING ARROUND LIKE A CAT, just a dream........ hehehehe might work even
if she is turned on
To be honest with you John, your question isn't all that clear in the sense that I can't figure it out whether the wrongness you're asking about is in the "lie you tell your girlfriend" or in the "act of getting turned on, masturbating and ejaculating on her butts."
The moment you bring in the right-ness or wrong-ness of an act you already bring in moral issues from a certain perspective. To scale your act on the moral scale would need various aspects which would lead to a correct moral Judgment.
Your question or problem sounds to be too general (not clear from which perspective it comes from: psychological, biological, physiological, sociological etc.), be specific, "put flesh to the skeleton."
But just to give it a try from another angle - answering a question with a question- Why do you fear waking her up? Why cheat her? (if you're unable to answer these questions then you really need help from specialists) Tell her (your girlfriend) the truth and see her reaction. Come on man, liberate yourself from that lie! Be courageous in facing your own mistakes. If her response is negative then you really need help to sort out things. If she loves it, then...
Ciao!
The moment you bring in the right-ness or wrong-ness of an act you already bring in moral issues from a certain perspective. To scale your act on the moral scale would need various aspects which would lead to a correct moral Judgment.
Your question or problem sounds to be too general (not clear from which perspective it comes from: psychological, biological, physiological, sociological etc.), be specific, "put flesh to the skeleton."
But just to give it a try from another angle - answering a question with a question- Why do you fear waking her up? Why cheat her? (if you're unable to answer these questions then you really need help from specialists) Tell her (your girlfriend) the truth and see her reaction. Come on man, liberate yourself from that lie! Be courageous in facing your own mistakes. If her response is negative then you really need help to sort out things. If she loves it, then...
Ciao!