So Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For almost 9 Months Now.
He Has Been Wanting Me To Give Him A Blowjob For The Longest Time..
But I Never Have. I Want Too.. but I'm Scared I Will Get Aids Or Something..
I Know This Sounds So Stupid, but I Can't Help The Way I Feel. He Gets Kinda Upset When I Don't.
But What Should I Do? Can Someone Help me Out??
He Has Been Wanting Me To Give Him A Blowjob For The Longest Time..
But I Never Have. I Want Too.. but I'm Scared I Will Get Aids Or Something..
I Know This Sounds So Stupid, but I Can't Help The Way I Feel. He Gets Kinda Upset When I Don't.
But What Should I Do? Can Someone Help me Out??
Hey well if ur so concerned bout catchin anythin y dnt u go get him tested out 2 c the results n if not den u can give him a bj while he has a condom on eventho it may take a lil bit of the pleasure out...
Yea - I agree...if you really are that concerned use a flavored condom on him.
Well I Mean We Are Only 14. So He Can't Really Go Do That;
WOW - 14???
Several things come to mind...but I will be nice!!!
1st - just how many partners has he had that you would be concerned that he may have AIDS? If he is that 'experienced' at 14 - maybe you need to re-examine why he is with you...and why he wants you to do that so bad! (<<<< and I'm a guy!!!)
2nd - Neither of you are ready for any kind of sex if you aren't ready to buy condoms!!!!!!!! Seriously - if he is "man" enough to ask for oral sex - he BETTER be man enough to take the responsibility for protecting you and himself. If he (and you) want to make adult decisions...then adult responsibility comes along with that.
If you are uncomfortable with doing this with him - then don't! If using a condom makes you more comfortable - than INSIST he provides them! But - before you make those decisions...STOP...and think about why you want to do this!
Several things come to mind...but I will be nice!!!
1st - just how many partners has he had that you would be concerned that he may have AIDS? If he is that 'experienced' at 14 - maybe you need to re-examine why he is with you...and why he wants you to do that so bad! (<<<< and I'm a guy!!!)
2nd - Neither of you are ready for any kind of sex if you aren't ready to buy condoms!!!!!!!! Seriously - if he is "man" enough to ask for oral sex - he BETTER be man enough to take the responsibility for protecting you and himself. If he (and you) want to make adult decisions...then adult responsibility comes along with that.
If you are uncomfortable with doing this with him - then don't! If using a condom makes you more comfortable - than INSIST he provides them! But - before you make those decisions...STOP...and think about why you want to do this!
Oo wow... I thought we were talkin 2 older ppl here but nvm dat lol... I agree wit taz... think wisely girl...
I am 14 too and I agree with the previous comments that you are too young. You shouldn't be giving bjs to guys even if you went out with them for 9months
if you are afraid he has a desease, then why are you still with him?
If u truly want to give him one ( not saying u should ) tell him to go to a. Truck stop and there are condoms in the bathrOom for a dollar.
Chronological age is not the same as emotional age. If my gf was abused by her father, lived with a drunken mother, was ostracized because of this and had few friends, was thrown out of the family home and had to sleep in the woods, went to the courts and was emancipated at age fourteen by the court, she might very well be ready for a steady relationship in her life, both physical and emotional. It might be the least thing she needs if the sociological help scene were indifferent.