Groin pain in a woman, Is it serious or not?

hi,

I need some help or advice to put my mind at ease, i am a 24 year old gal and eva since having my ickle girl 3 years ago, nothing aint been the same "down there". I have been having groin pains for months now and am really worried but i am to shy to go get checked out because of a rough experience before. The groin pains come and go, not a sharp pain but a dull pain, lasts a few mins then goes, on either side left or right, sumtimes it can be sore to touch mostly on the right side, but other days seem fine, and i notice the pain more before between and after my period, I try to forget it sumtime and hope it will go away but obviously aint, I am desperate to try for another baby but i am scared incase there is something serious with me. I need ur help guys!

Seriously, can this be the cause of something serious? Or am i worrying about something stupid?

Please help me xxx

Thank u very much appreciated