I work out at a gym and take a shower after my work out. If I haven't had sex for a few days I tend to get an erection when I'm taking a shower. It is not a full erection but anyone looking can tell that I'm getting one. Most of the time I'm thinking about my girlfriend when I'm in the shower at the gym. The showers are communial so there nothing seperating the shower heads from the next one. I don't want the guys to think I'm getting turned on by them. Is there anything I can do to keep the erections from coming on or saying something if another guy notices.
hey, i had the same problem. it wasn't about the other guys, it was just that i was really nervous about being naked and that's how the anxiety/excitement expressed itself. It seemed like it was my natural response to being naked, even in private.
for an immediate solution, I would suggest turning the water to cold.
I got over it long term by going to a nude beach repeatedly until I got used to being naked around other (naked) people.
for an immediate solution, I would suggest turning the water to cold.
I got over it long term by going to a nude beach repeatedly until I got used to being naked around other (naked) people.
Try being a 12 year old boy standing in the middle of the school's showers with a boner sticking out while other boys laugh and point at your stiff member.
We've all to endure that, it's just part of living. Are you the only one who gets a boner? I doubt it.
Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth