my girlfriend and me been going out 5 week now and she 49 has girl age 28 we try have sex last week but my penis is big she not had sex for long time told me and when try put in to her would go in her did want to hurt her now she worrying and l dont want to lose her can you help thanks caddock :$
caddock
try starting her out again as if she was a teen/young adult - go to the store together and buy her a "sex toy" that will help with this, as so me stores have items that will grow as you need them, and this will help her stretch out and not hurt her.
Try a differant postion, her on top, or "hound style" get a long like "doggy" and don't give up, she will re-stretch with time
RT
try starting her out again as if she was a teen/young adult - go to the store together and buy her a "sex toy" that will help with this, as so me stores have items that will grow as you need them, and this will help her stretch out and not hurt her.
Try a differant postion, her on top, or "hound style" get a long like "doggy" and don't give up, she will re-stretch with time
RT
Congrats on your new girlfriend. I think you're telling me that you and the 49 year old were attempting sex, but you were afraid of hurting her.
That's nice of you, but you might want to trust what she is telling you. Did she SAY that it was painful?
Did you two use protection?
Did you use some form of lubrication?
At her age, you will want to suppliment her natural lubrication with something smooth and easily cleaned up, like KY Jelly, or similar personal lube. It's nothing to be ashamed of... nature has just dried up.
Tell her you'd like to try again, and spend more time to pleasure her.
She'll appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Good luck.
That's nice of you, but you might want to trust what she is telling you. Did she SAY that it was painful?
Did you two use protection?
Did you use some form of lubrication?
At her age, you will want to suppliment her natural lubrication with something smooth and easily cleaned up, like KY Jelly, or similar personal lube. It's nothing to be ashamed of... nature has just dried up.
Tell her you'd like to try again, and spend more time to pleasure her.
She'll appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Good luck.
thank you not that just blood on the bed and sore in side she ask me to use a vibrating first can think it cut her done somethink in side her because that saturday last week in blackpool and meet her on thursday in town when seeing home had me firgar inside her and the was blood on my fingars think got a cut inside her dont no wabt is but she sore in side
will not go the doctors so dont no what to do thanks allan caddock
will not go the doctors so dont no what to do thanks allan caddock
you say get sex toy can give me some details what one will help her with this please :$
we try again still the same but hurt her when try to put in her and was blood on my sheets started cry told her to go doctor but will not think she going to lose me over this if can help allan :$
OK, this may be obvious, but here goes.
Something is wrong. She's bleeding.
Why is she so frightened of going to the doctors? Did she have a bad experience? Is she afraid of what she or you might learn?
I'd insist that she go, because you are concerned about her. If you approach this right, she should feel reassured that you care, and want her well and happy.
Someone suggested a sex toy, but I think a doctor's exam is in order first.
If you want a suggestion for a sex toy, you might consider a "rabbit" or similar vibrating jelly animal head on a vibrator. Many women find they enjoy the varried stimulation of this type of toy.
HOWEVER, it should be HER choice, not yours... and I think there's a bit of healing and caring that must come first. Now is not the time to press her to make out with a sex toy of YOUR choice.
Offer to go with her to the doctor. Perhaps he can give you some insight and suggestions. If you are a couple, he'll treat you as a couple. But it really IS her health, and her decision.
Good luck, Caddock.
PS: We don't use full names here.
Something is wrong. She's bleeding.
Why is she so frightened of going to the doctors? Did she have a bad experience? Is she afraid of what she or you might learn?
I'd insist that she go, because you are concerned about her. If you approach this right, she should feel reassured that you care, and want her well and happy.
Someone suggested a sex toy, but I think a doctor's exam is in order first.
If you want a suggestion for a sex toy, you might consider a "rabbit" or similar vibrating jelly animal head on a vibrator. Many women find they enjoy the varried stimulation of this type of toy.
HOWEVER, it should be HER choice, not yours... and I think there's a bit of healing and caring that must come first. Now is not the time to press her to make out with a sex toy of YOUR choice.
Offer to go with her to the doctor. Perhaps he can give you some insight and suggestions. If you are a couple, he'll treat you as a couple. But it really IS her health, and her decision.
Good luck, Caddock.
PS: We don't use full names here.