Hymenal tags are normal and considered quite sexy!! Some small, some long, some large, some wide. Many of them are visible on mainstream porn stars and models.
IF IT HURTS it should be addressed. Any pain should be. But if it's just a hymenal tag, then please consider before you go through some painful process (especially on your own at home!!!).
26F - yes I have one
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Bit late to this chat but the same thing is happening to me, how did you get it fixed?
Okay, exactly the same for me I got fingered at the age of 13! Please do not judge and every time this has happened it’s kinda hurt and I haven’t orgasmed same with sex! I don’t want to tell anyone since I was too young and under age. But basically it hurts all the time and I looked down there to find this peice hanging from my labia I think? But I re searched it a few months later and I’ve finally found this site. Will I ever orgasm or is that a no?
If I cut it off will it hurt and It’s kinda worn away but not a lot. Some sites have said it will wear away I’m not sure weather this is true or not. I really need some advise. I thought this is what everyone had but now I don’t think so.
Okay, exactly the same for me I got fingered at the age of 13! Please do not judge and every time this has happened it’s kinda hurt and I haven’t orgasmed same with sex! I don’t want to tell anyone since I was too young and under age. But basically it hurts all the time and I looked down there to find this peice hanging from my labia I think? But I re searched it a few months later and I’ve finally found this site. Will I ever orgasm or is that a no?
If I cut it off will it hurt and It’s kinda worn away but not a lot. Some sites have said it will wear away I’m not sure weather this is true or not. I really need some advise. I thought this is what everyone had but now I don’t think so.
Okay, exactly the same for me I got fingered at the age of 13! Please do not judge and every time this has happened it’s kinda hurt and I haven’t orgasmed same with sex! I don’t want to tell anyone since I was too young and under age. But basically it hurts all the time and I looked down there to find this peice hanging from my labia I think? But I re searched it a few months later and I’ve finally found this site. Will I ever orgasm or is that a no?
If I cut it off will it hurt and It’s kinda worn away but not a lot. Some sites have said it will wear away I’m not sure weather this is true or not. I really need some advise. I thought this is what everyone had but now I don’t think so.
Before you do any cutting or surgery or *anything*, check it all out first! And, please, if you have not done so, get with a therapist and talk through your early experiences with sex. It could be that your lack of ability to orgasm isn't physical at all but stems from these experiences that happened way too early in your development.
you can search for images to see whether you match with others who have hymenal tags (or to use the slang term p***ytongues), and you can seek out places that have further, knowledgable discussion of these matters. It's my experience that most doctors simply do not know much about this and will replicate myths and legends, some of them quite harmful.
(Yes I have one)
Please let us know how things turn out. I'm pulling for you!!!
I don't know if you'll read this as it has been awhile since this post. But I'm in the same exact spot as you. I honestly thought I was the only one who had this issue. The tampon thing was how I found out about mine. I was still a virgin when I first saw it so I was unsure of what it was, but I would have to pull my tampon out sideways because it would get caught in this "loop" I assumed it was my hymen. I thought once I had sex it'd go away, but it hasn't. Two years later of having sex and it's still there. As gross as it is, my boyfriend tells me he can still feel it sometimes when he goes in. Ughh so anyway, although my tampons don't get stuck like they use to, the hymen still hangs out a bit. I have seriously considered cutting it several times. Did you ever get yours fixed or find out if it was your hymen or not? My dr wasn't sure as to what it was.