i have a girlfriend, I'm 14 years old this year and she wants to have sex to some of you out there that's probably a bit young to start but these days people are having sex at 12. I'm just worried when we go to have sex that I'm gonna com to quick or shes going to be attracted to what i have to show Ive told her Wat i look like shes seen me and iv seen her i think shes gorgeous but lets just say I'm not the hottest go on the planet and wen it comes to actually seeing ourselves naked u think differently could this happen? and i was wondering is there anyone out there that can give me advice how to control my ejaculation period of time? I'm probably the youngest guy asking this but.... i really need to know. :$ and do all girls care about penis size? :$
Honey! I want you to listen to this OK? I am VERY worried about the reasons why she wants sex especially at such a YOUNG age! Which you are! It MIGHT be true that some have sex at 12 but that is NOT the norm at all, and I would say - from talking to hundreds of teens - that this is more a myth - and almost like "I knew a guy who knew a guy that had sex at 12" etc. At 14 - you BOTH are still not fully developed, she has a hymen that will break and hurt her! And you will probably ejaculate at 1st base! It is ALL about maturity! I would NEVER give a teenager - especially such a young one advice on how to have sex! I don't agree with this at all, and I am worried that she has either been forced to have sex before - either through an older guy or worse! OR she is caught up with ALL of this over the top sexual images, of music videos, tv shows, movies etc, and the good old LIE!!!She might think that "EVERYONE is having sex, so I better so I don't look like an id**t!" These are ALL NOT good enough reasons to have sex! IF sex was like what they show on MTV or movies and tv, NO ONE would be going to work or school\!|!|!! ;-)
IF something goes wrong - you will both be scarred for life! DONT be in a hurry for this honey - I KNOW that both of your hormones are just ROARING right now, but trust me - everyone is NOT doing it! And you shouldn't either! Wait till you are more mature enough to handle the consequences - such as PREGNANCY! As condoms are about 97% effective - meaning 3% of ALL women get pregnant using a condom - I just am counselling a women who used a condom once and she is now pregnnat!!! CAN you imagine your girlfriend becoming pregnant at 14?!!!!! This will RUIN your lives! So think about it more! ALSO in many countries, states, provinces in the world you can actually be charged with statutory rape - because she is under the age of consent! And if her parents found out - you could actually be arrested - and be known as a CHILD RAPIST! This has happened to MANY poor teenagers - because the girls parents couldn't handle it!! So you be careful and tell he you guys need to wait! OR you JUST MIGHT have to deal with MAJOR consequences OK? Good luck and health to both!
IF something goes wrong - you will both be scarred for life! DONT be in a hurry for this honey - I KNOW that both of your hormones are just ROARING right now, but trust me - everyone is NOT doing it! And you shouldn't either! Wait till you are more mature enough to handle the consequences - such as PREGNANCY! As condoms are about 97% effective - meaning 3% of ALL women get pregnant using a condom - I just am counselling a women who used a condom once and she is now pregnnat!!! CAN you imagine your girlfriend becoming pregnant at 14?!!!!! This will RUIN your lives! So think about it more! ALSO in many countries, states, provinces in the world you can actually be charged with statutory rape - because she is under the age of consent! And if her parents found out - you could actually be arrested - and be known as a CHILD RAPIST! This has happened to MANY poor teenagers - because the girls parents couldn't handle it!! So you be careful and tell he you guys need to wait! OR you JUST MIGHT have to deal with MAJOR consequences OK? Good luck and health to both!
you may think im like other guys just wanting sex but. im not... im alot more mature then every other guy out there even if there 2 years older then me i love my girlfriend and she wants to take this extra step further i will talk it over with HER and her PARENTS. and 1 u still didnt answer my questiong do all women care about penis size? she tells me that she doesnt.
No they dont care! so you will be talking about your intentions, to have sex, with her parents?[/list]
i found out shes just a girl that wants sex so im dumping her and moveing on, i asked a friend out that ive liked for 2 years and shes currentelly likeing someone else but she also likes me and she has to choose :-D