Yes it is your regular old crush... almost. See he rides my bus. He is 2 years older than me. His uncle is dating my bff's mom. My bff is cool with me dating him. Only she decided to be a really mean friend, and scream to him that I wanted to go out with him...while I was there }:[.  anyway, he knows I like him but I'm not sure about his feelings. How can I find out what he is feeling without coming off invasive and stalkerish? 

Btw like any father he wants to kill my crush.