This message is coming late, but I hope you receive it. I am sorry you are going through this. I know sorta what it's like minus the cultural part. There is good news though. There are procedures to fix your hymen so to speak so that you can and will bleed again. I'm not sure where you live but look for a hymen repair cosmetic surgery. Best of luck.
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Hello, I'm very sorry that this happened to you and wish you happiness! I, too come from a culture where virginity is important but what if your future husband is not a virgin? Then will you not marry him? If a man believes you are not worthy of him because you've lost your virginity, then please don't marry that man. Us, women have so much more to offer and we have the right to believe that!
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Hello, I'm very sorry that this happened to you and wish you happiness! I, too come from a culture where virginity is important but what if your future husband is not a virgin? Then will you not marry him? If a man believes you are not worthy of him because you've lost your virginity, then please don't marry that man. Us, women have so much more to offer and we have the right to believe that!
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It's sad to hear....... I don't know whether we will ever speak again or not but all I want to say..... U trusted someone... And got betrayed ...... I tell my younger sisters not to date anyone between 11-21 .... Cause here is the time when you meet a lot of temporary people... Get a life.... Get a degree...... Trust me you will find people way better than those if you started to do stuff as young as 11 yrs..... I am praying for you...... Hope you overcome.... Will be there for you always...... Plz do tell young ones not to date as the consequences are not good..... Show them an example.... Don't let time tp punish them.....
Lots of love.....
Peace
Lots of love.....
Peace
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okay, no, do not pretend like this man raped you. That is not only a lie but may hurt you to think of the person you love in a negative light. A few things. I lost my virginity a few nights ago and similarly he will not talk to me. He really, really hurt me so I hope you are doing okay and are finding a good support system around entrusted friends or family. Second, in response to this anon, no it is not insane or crazy the mentality of your "country", I apologize for over stepping but you are a complete and utter ignorant fool (anon) , you have no idea where she is from. She could be from America, Britain, Asia, Iceland, Sweden, Africa, Pakistan she could be from anywhere and her community could be her family, neighborhood, church anything so please lets keep our insults and assumptions to ourselves. Next, no there is no way for the man you are sleeping with to know that it is your first time and not every vagina is the same. Some girls bleed at the loss of their virginity, some do not. You do not have to admit anything to your future husband, but who knows who he will be and who knows if he will care. You have done nothing wrong or anything worth shaming. I hope everything gets sorted out for you!
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Actually , Now nothing much can be Done . Just don't reveal to most of the people that you are Not Virgin (Except your Very Close People ) .
But Don't worry , The life doesn't ends here . If you find Someone Special in Future , Tell him as soon as Possible AFTER getting into relationship that you are Not a Virgin . If the Guy accepts you Saying that It was your past , Then you will be Happy With Him as he will love you ❤ . Actually , If a Man is truly in love with a Woman , Virginity won't matter to him at all , All that he wants is You
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Sorry but many guy's have little respect for girls that are not virgin. Very difficult to love a girl that's shared her body with others; with images of a guy feeling her up and entering her body. There is unlikely to be true original love to him.
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Hello, I'm sorry to hear about what happen. I am going through the same thing. I am 17yrs old and gave my virginity up the other night and the same night he didn't talk to me all night and when he did we would fight. I have told myself over and over again that he isn't worth my time. That I don't need someone like that. I hope it gets better for you sweetheart. I know how you fell.
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At the time you posted this you were only broken up for a week..were you eventually able to move on and be happy with someone else as time went forward? How long did it take to heal from this?
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I have lived that very experience and even after 20 years, it's still difficult dealing with images of my wife with others before me. I deal with it but often wonder what life would have been like with a true love.
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God loves you. Catholics like all Christians believe that God can forgive you of all of your sins should you confess them to him. (I have a Masters in Catholic Education.) God is love. God loves you very, very, very much. Yes, it is true that God doesn't like it when we sin. But, God does not just leave us in our dispair without hope or a soloution. It does not stop there. God provides a solution to our problem.That is why God sent us Jesus! What Jesus did helps to restore the relationship we have with God. Jesus died on the cross so you would be free. Jesus paid the consequences for your sins and the world's sins on that cross.He takes your burdens and sins upon himself if you just say a simple prayer. Those that turn to God and are sorry for these sins (no matter how bad they are) will be forgiven. Even if you have killed people. God will forgive you. Just ask God to forgive you of your sins and you you will be forgiven. You will be pure as snow. God is a good God. He loves you.
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God loves you. Catholics like all Christians believe that God can forgive you of all of your sins should you confess them to him. (I have a Masters in Catholic Education.) God is love. God loves you very, very, very much. Yes, it is true that God doesn't like it when we sin. But, God does not just leave us in our despair without hope or a solution. It does not stop there. God provides a solution to our problem.That is why God sent us Jesus! What Jesus did helps to restore the relationship we have with God. Jesus died on the cross so you would be free. Jesus paid the consequences for your sins and the world's sins on that cross.He takes your burdens and sins upon himself if you just say a simple prayer. Those that turn to God and are sorry for these sins (no matter how bad they are) will be forgiven. Even if you have killed people. God will forgive you. Just ask God to forgive you of your sins and you will be forgiven. You will be pure as snow. God is a good God. He loves you. In relation to guys, there are guys that will marry you. Yes, some guys may reject you if you are honest with them. But, the right guy that is meant to be your husband will love and forgive you. If you said sorry to God you are pure in God's eyes. The right guy will love you as Jesus loves you. Everything is going to be ok. *hug*
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God loves you. Catholics like all Christians believe that God can forgive you of all of your sins should you confess them to him. (I have a Masters in Catholic Education.) God is love. God loves you very, very, very much. Yes, it is true that God doesn't like it when we sin. But, God does not just leave us in our despair without hope or a solution. It does not stop there. God provides a solution to our problem.That is why God sent us Jesus! What Jesus did helps to restore the relationship we have with God. Jesus died on the cross so you would be free. Jesus paid the consequences for your sins and the world's sins on that cross.He takes your burdens and sins upon himself if you just say a simple prayer. Those that turn to God and are sorry for these sins (no matter how bad they are) will be forgiven. Even if you have killed people. God will forgive you. Just ask God to forgive you of your sins and you will be forgiven. You will be pure as snow. God is a good God. He loves you. In relation to guys, there are guys that will marry you. Yes, some guys may reject you if you are honest with them. But, the right guy that is meant to be your husband will love and forgive you. If you said sorry to God you are pure in God's eyes. The right guy will love you as Jesus loves you. Everything is going to be ok. *hug*
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