so I'm 14 and yeah I get its dumb that I did this huge mistake . but I had anal sex like 3 weeks ago and I've heard that you can't get pregnant but I haven't gotten my period yet and I'm so scared . can I get pregnant ? His penis also kinda rubbed on my vagina , but he did not stick it in .. and he wasn't wearing a condom ... I feel as I'm kinda over reacting though .. I try calming my self down but I can't because I can't tell my mom yet because she would kill me .