Hi honey! You HAVE to be careful with asking such questions. Even though this is a safe place to ask questions, the administration can not look at EVERY message. You might have too many "strange" answers or overly sexual.
Masturbation - self touch - is a VERY personal matter. You have probably been touching yourself for years - as ALL mammals self touch. IF you do what "comes natural" and don't buy into the porn industry hype etc. You will be just fine. Most people your age feel that they are the ONLY ones that feel this way and everyone else is having orgasms etc. That is NOT the case. Anyone - in your age group - is having the same insecurities etc. What you can find on the internet and some TV channels and DVD's etc. is WAY over the top. Normal people don't act like that. I had a dear friend of mine whom was a prostitute it is a game and a job - period. So don't think for one second you need to try and be the same. These folks are trying to make a living and they HAVE to "put it on".
Just be natural and healthy and your body will lead you to where it wants!