So we got married and have been having sex for over a year, i was his first and from the beginning it was rocky...he was scared he wasn't taking care of my needs so he cut me off completely and never spoke to me about it. Finally after telling with him how i felt things kinda got better. When we do have sex it is great...but he hardly ever wants it and he says i am addicted! That is NOT all i care about, but i feel that is one way to connect...
I wait and wait and wait, days go by, maybe a week or so and i find myself so angry. I feel as if i have done something wrong. I never have put him down saying he's not any good or anything". What is his problem, what is mine? How do i fix this???
I wait and wait and wait, days go by, maybe a week or so and i find myself so angry. I feel as if i have done something wrong. I never have put him down saying he's not any good or anything". What is his problem, what is mine? How do i fix this???
you may ask him, maybe he dosent want another child or maybe he has a varginal scarism (wich means he dosent feel comfy with it)
your best bet is to meet me for a private evaluation of the problem. i can show you some techniques which you can later teach to him...
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really though, tell him there is only room for one girl in the relationship it ain't him. either he's gay or he's not. if he knows he's straight he needs to have sex with you... go down on him until he is turned on, then start practicing.
Also, you have to be honest with yourself. Is he attracted to you? Have you asked him? Sometimes a man will love his woman too much to tell her that she is too fat to turn him on. Only you know if this is the case, and if it is its not the end of the world. Hit the gym and increase your fresh fruit and vegetable intake... Be serious about it, meaning if your workout didn't make you sweat and breath hard for at least 20 minutes guess what?, you wasted your time.
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really though, tell him there is only room for one girl in the relationship it ain't him. either he's gay or he's not. if he knows he's straight he needs to have sex with you... go down on him until he is turned on, then start practicing.
Also, you have to be honest with yourself. Is he attracted to you? Have you asked him? Sometimes a man will love his woman too much to tell her that she is too fat to turn him on. Only you know if this is the case, and if it is its not the end of the world. Hit the gym and increase your fresh fruit and vegetable intake... Be serious about it, meaning if your workout didn't make you sweat and breath hard for at least 20 minutes guess what?, you wasted your time.
Maybe you should spice things up for him. Bring out your inner freak. My boyfriend acted the same way. Turns out he was bi curious. He told me he was into shemales and stuff. It really freaked me out but being a bisexual my self i grew to accept it. We share gay and bi porn. He has performed anal on me and i have done the same to him. Im not saying you are interested in trying all this but just cut loose and experment. Try and dominate him for a change. Sex would be 100 times better for both of you!