I usually don't do one night stands, but I did last night. I was very upfront about safe sex and very careful. I insisted he wear a rubber and I'm not on birth control. Long story less long, we ended up having anal sex in addition to vaginal sex.
I am posting here because I am a bit worried today. You see, there was a moment, the middle of having sex, where he almost started having sex with me without a rubber (after he took the first one off). The first one fell off inside me. When I looked at it, there wasn't any seamen there, and I asked him if he ejaculated, and he said no. Well, when he was about to start again, he didn't have a rubber on. He was about to enter me, then I reminded him about the rubber, and he put it on. Then he turned me around and we started having anal intercourse. When we were all done, he excused himself to take a shower.
Well, I was a little paranoid, so I looked near/in the garbage can and only saw one rubber, and I assumed it was the first one. And there was no seamen in it. I was feeling paranoid because, with my back to him during sex, I couldn't see if he had taken it off, and I had the strong suspicion that he didn't want to have sex with a rubber. But it's only a feeling.
Basically, how worried should I be, whether or not he used a condom when having anal sex with me? I didn't notice any fluid coming out after anal sex, in my underwear, etc. The day after, I had a bowel movement and I didn't notice anything "different" (ie, semen or fluid, etc).
Bottom line: I'm basically worried about whether or not this guy didn't wear a condom during anal sex and came inside me as a result. What do you think the odds are, hearing this story, that it happened? Am I just looking for something to be worried about?
Please, I'm not looking for admonishment or chastising, as I'm a grown woman and did what I could to be careful. I just am quite astute sometimes and I notice details, and now I'm just a bit worried. What do you think the odds are and what risks might I be in for?
And does anyone know how long I should wait to get tested for all STDs just to be safe? Is there a window beyond which one can get tested for the gamut and know the results??
I am posting here because I am a bit worried today. You see, there was a moment, the middle of having sex, where he almost started having sex with me without a rubber (after he took the first one off). The first one fell off inside me. When I looked at it, there wasn't any seamen there, and I asked him if he ejaculated, and he said no. Well, when he was about to start again, he didn't have a rubber on. He was about to enter me, then I reminded him about the rubber, and he put it on. Then he turned me around and we started having anal intercourse. When we were all done, he excused himself to take a shower.
Well, I was a little paranoid, so I looked near/in the garbage can and only saw one rubber, and I assumed it was the first one. And there was no seamen in it. I was feeling paranoid because, with my back to him during sex, I couldn't see if he had taken it off, and I had the strong suspicion that he didn't want to have sex with a rubber. But it's only a feeling.
Basically, how worried should I be, whether or not he used a condom when having anal sex with me? I didn't notice any fluid coming out after anal sex, in my underwear, etc. The day after, I had a bowel movement and I didn't notice anything "different" (ie, semen or fluid, etc).
Bottom line: I'm basically worried about whether or not this guy didn't wear a condom during anal sex and came inside me as a result. What do you think the odds are, hearing this story, that it happened? Am I just looking for something to be worried about?
Please, I'm not looking for admonishment or chastising, as I'm a grown woman and did what I could to be careful. I just am quite astute sometimes and I notice details, and now I'm just a bit worried. What do you think the odds are and what risks might I be in for?
And does anyone know how long I should wait to get tested for all STDs just to be safe? Is there a window beyond which one can get tested for the gamut and know the results??