Okay so me and my fiance have been TRYING so hard for a baby, but NOTHING! Every time I get my period it makes us both stressed and let down. I stopped my birth control February 26, 2012 and now it's July 30, 2012.. People have said that's enough time off for me to be pregnant but NO LUCK!! It's been stressing us out (mostly me) to the point where I just shut down and say I'm sorry it hasn't happened yet. He also blames himself for it because he knows when he was like a teen the doctor said he can reproduce but nothing has happened so he thinks he can't have kids.

I started about a month or 2 ago searching for positions that help to conceive and even asked friends but even those haven't seemed to help. My one friend said there's a pill you can order online that makes you grow and also 'shoot' further so you can make babies but I'm afraid to mention it because I know if I say the whole "it'll make you bigger too" he'll probably take it like I'm saying he's small when I'm not.

We've tried just about any and everything... A couple of times I've thought about us both going to the doctor and getting help but I'm scared to and would feel embarrassed... I think my main fear is hearing that I can't have kids.  

I know last year I watched the Tyra Show and there was a thing on there about conceiving and someone on there said something about certain foods you need to eat, certain weight,and all kinds of stuff. Is that true what I heard?

We still keep trying and still nothing, I'm wore out at times, I have aches/pains, my belly is kinda forming according to other people,and my eating habits and cravings have changed. 

What do I do exactly??? Someone please help. You'd be a life saver, we REALLY want a child together so we can start our family!! Give me some tips, advice, whatever! Just please take this seriously. We'd appreciate it alot. 

Thanks for your time and cooperation too!!