Well, I'm a 20 year old male and i found this link. I was very curious about things as a young teen as well and I'd like to share some wisdom. Every girl uses her phone, I know this. People have put almost anything you can think of up every orifice they have, for the sake of curiosity, boredom, and pleasure. Although fun, their can be consequences; ladies you have a delicate thing down there, it's a mucus membrane, much like your mouth and rectum, it can be torn and bacteria may cause some problems that are less than fun. open wounds in these areas are slow healing and are surrounded by bacteria, some healthy, some not. You can use whatever you think is safe and sterile( phones and toilet paper holders are not sterile.) As mentioned by another post, vegetables can be safe, just be sure to run pretty hot water on it first, and probably a condom wouldn't be a bad idea either.
This is for girls and boys alike---if you use something that becomes painful and a little blood is on the object, don't panic, unless it's broken glass or something sharp and impaling your intestines. most likely you will be fine if you stop the activity and maybe clean up please. This may seem obvious, but please do not use: light bulbs, utensils, glass, tooth paste tube, flashlights, or anything containing something toxic or volatile, metal, sharp or questionable in any way.
Although I have never felt one, vagina's look wonderful, please take care of yours. If you do buy a sex toy, buy small at first and take it easy, many guys cannot compete with a 12'' dildo that's ribbed and vibrates at three different speeds. It is better to wait and experience it with a guy, and be able to appreciate what he has and be able to get off to him. The more you use toys with maximum stimulation, the less satisfied you will be with your guy, and you will need more and more stimulation and eventually be in some S&M video someday having a midget whip your ass while a war vet fondles you(not good things).
I hope this sheds some light on this taboo topic.
And if you need a real guy let me know.
Have fun by yourself safely boys and girls.
This is for girls and boys alike---if you use something that becomes painful and a little blood is on the object, don't panic, unless it's broken glass or something sharp and impaling your intestines. most likely you will be fine if you stop the activity and maybe clean up please. This may seem obvious, but please do not use: light bulbs, utensils, glass, tooth paste tube, flashlights, or anything containing something toxic or volatile, metal, sharp or questionable in any way.
Although I have never felt one, vagina's look wonderful, please take care of yours. If you do buy a sex toy, buy small at first and take it easy, many guys cannot compete with a 12'' dildo that's ribbed and vibrates at three different speeds. It is better to wait and experience it with a guy, and be able to appreciate what he has and be able to get off to him. The more you use toys with maximum stimulation, the less satisfied you will be with your guy, and you will need more and more stimulation and eventually be in some S&M video someday having a midget whip your ass while a war vet fondles you(not good things).
I hope this sheds some light on this taboo topic.
And if you need a real guy let me know.
Have fun by yourself safely boys and girls.
And HELL NO!, don't ever use a damn metal coat hanger, unless you don't ever want kids that is. That's stuff they do in female prisons to each other, so unless you are doing 10-20 in a women correctional facility, a coat hanger is the last thing you want up there. Tell you what, If you are a 14-20 year old girl considering using such things, please drop the coat hanger and call me up, I have a penis, way bigger than the toilet paper holder and way more enjoyable than any household old object you may happen upon.
Try having sex with someone.. Its more fun.
Hi, I'm 14, turning 15 :-D and i masterbate too. The first time I masterbated, I was 12 and after that I really liked it. I got super nervous that I was a freak, but now i know it's totally normal and it can be kept a secret if you want to. I usually just imagine well...sexual stuff in my head cuz i can get pretty creative and it helps. Then I go into my room when no one is home and touch myself down there and use my cell when i put it on vibrate. Hope this helped and good luck!
im 14 and i am a boy i masterbate as much as possible its fun good exercise (lol) and it feels good and gettin caught mite not b a big deal my grandma caught me and told me 2 use a place tht can b locked, so i also use the shower. it is just fun and its natural for people of anyage plus it feels so good either way (im partially bi) just do ur best not to get caught and if u do they will understand, even if there is a akward silence
Masterbating is absolutely normal. Many people do it regularily. Though if you are planing on inserting anything from around the house make sure to wash it well and put a condom on it. If any bacteria or other contaminants enter your vagina you could get an infection. I would suggest waiting until your family are in bed or locking / blocking off your door to get some privacy, then try experimenting with rubbing your clit in different ways, hard, soft, fast, slow, over or under the hood. See what feels good. If you cant get privacy in your room try playing with your hands in the shower if the water didn't work for you.
I have just started ...... it feels fantastic !!! I use my fingers and my pillow and sometimes a hairbrush ! Make sure whatever you use its clean though !! Good Luck ! ;-)
I`ve just started masturbating ! I get NO pleasure outta using my phone !! I also had no idea you HAD too put a condom on the thing you are using !?!? Do you HAVE to ??? ! Help anyone ? :$ :'( !
Hi i'm a 15 going on 16 boy. I think it's completely normal to masterbate. Everyone does it at some point in their life. I do it from 3 to 4 or maybe 4 to 5 times a day. I've never got caught yet, i only do it when i'm alone or in the middle of the night, it's a lot easier that way.
I'm a 14 year old boy and there is absolutly nothing wrong with masterbating I do it all the time. I really don't think that my parents would care if they knew I masterbated and I bet that your parents wouldn't care either. I would think that they would rather you masterbate than have sex. Your parents more than likely did it when they were younger and most likely still do. You can lock your door and keep it a secret or you could tell your parents either one is okay because I don't tell my parents.
You can use anything to masterbate like the bottom of a toothbrush or hairbrush but what ever you do make sure that the surface is not sharp because of the risk on cutting yourself, you have to be careful with what you do make sure you don't use like a carrot because its surface can cause cuts. I would suggest not to use foods, expecially if the food is sweet or sour because this can cause some very uncomfortable burning. So just use anything that you are comfortable with, and most importantly have fun because masterbation is a fun and safe way to relief stress. ;-)
You can use anything to masterbate like the bottom of a toothbrush or hairbrush but what ever you do make sure that the surface is not sharp because of the risk on cutting yourself, you have to be careful with what you do make sure you don't use like a carrot because its surface can cause cuts. I would suggest not to use foods, expecially if the food is sweet or sour because this can cause some very uncomfortable burning. So just use anything that you are comfortable with, and most importantly have fun because masterbation is a fun and safe way to relief stress. ;-)
well i masterbate alot and i just put a pillow on the side of a couch and hump it and it feels sooooooooo good. hmm i used to put peanut butter down there and get my dog to licl it. that felt gooood. man i feel like masterbating now. and i love to look at boobs. oh and im a girl lol i want some new ideas though :-)
I wish people weren't so uptight about it. I started masterbating when I was nine and was sitting on a fencepost at school during a baseball game. I rubbed against it the whole time and nobody even noticed. I'm 15 now and I got good at hiding it from my parents. They think I take really long showers, but I really take quick ones and masterbate with the hand held showerhead until someone yells at me. lol. I also lock my door and play music and say that I don't like people coming in my room a lot. I'm 15, I'm supposed to want my privacy. My mom got me one of those Wave things for scrubbing your face, but I use it a lot more by rubbing the back part up and down from my clit to my hole. It's the best vibrator ever. Sometimes I finger myself in the bathroom at school. Nobody wants to know what you're doing in a stall. lol. I don't know if everybody would like it, but I have a guy friend and another girl and sometimes we masterbate together when nobody's home. Or we'll do each other. I think that's my favorite way. And I like thinking about doing scary stuff like doing a blowjob under someone's desk so nobody can see or late at night wondering what would happen if I did get caught. I'd probably die! But it's exciting to think about.
Hi im 14 female. I find that i am turned on all the time and the only way i masterbate is with a pillow. I want more pleasure and to mix it up. Do you have any suggestions?
Yeah, I'm 16 (will be 17 in a coupla months), and I do it all the time. It's perfectly normal.
I do it late at night when my parents are asleep, but it's so risky in my bed cuz you never know when they might want to come in.
So do it when you go in for a shower, or just get into the bathroom. The only problem is it's so much more pleasure when you let it out, make some noise... it's difficult when your parents are at home. wait for them to go out.
your finger should do it, hardcore massaging, best orgasms, multiple ones.
My finger works for me. but vibrators do wonders too...
i heard even a make-up brush does stuff, just brush... right on the spot.. it enters slowly into an orgasm, but it's too slow and boring for me.
if you have a boyfiried and you guys are big on sex experimenting, get him to get down there!
Enjoy yourself. I do.
I do it late at night when my parents are asleep, but it's so risky in my bed cuz you never know when they might want to come in.
So do it when you go in for a shower, or just get into the bathroom. The only problem is it's so much more pleasure when you let it out, make some noise... it's difficult when your parents are at home. wait for them to go out.
your finger should do it, hardcore massaging, best orgasms, multiple ones.
My finger works for me. but vibrators do wonders too...
i heard even a make-up brush does stuff, just brush... right on the spot.. it enters slowly into an orgasm, but it's too slow and boring for me.
if you have a boyfiried and you guys are big on sex experimenting, get him to get down there!
Enjoy yourself. I do.
i personally use a brillo pad