I see many
women in your situation who want to end a pregnancy, but do not have a close
person in their lives who will support this decision. Many women in this
situation choose to take the Abortion Pill. The experience of the
Abortion Pill is almost identical to a natural miscarriage. There is no
way anyone can know (including a doctor) that you induced (caused)the abortion,
rather than assuming it happened spontaneously. Early miscarriage is
common and normal, so the doctor should not require you to get a surgical
procedure, and should only give you reassurance about future pregnancies.
I don't know where you live, but if you want to write back with that
information, I may be able to help you find someone who offers this method.
Most religions are supportive of ending early pregnancy, before there is "movement" which happens after 12 weeks. I have spoken with people in the Muslim and Jewish religions, and there is some support for early pregnancy termination. Historically even the Catholic church accepted early termination of pregnancy. Until 10 weeks of pregnancy there is no visible embryo. I have found that this information has helped women feel more comfortable with their decision.
I also have the same problem . I live in Makati . can you pls help me ? my family will kill me for sure. please :(