I recently got married to my husband about a week ago. I was a virgin when we did it and I understood why i was tight the first two nights. But it's been a week and a few days and i'm still thight. I would like to know how to loosen my self up with him.
You don't really "loosen" from sex. Your vagina will stretch to accommodate his size but will kind of go back to its natural size when he pulls out. If you do keep having sex for years and he is constantly stretching you out I would think that it would get you a bit "looser" but not by a whole lot. If tightness is a problem I'd suggest using lube if you don't already, just because it'll make things smoother.