i've seen many diagrams but I still can't find it
Your clit is located just above your urethral opening in the upside down V where the lips covering your urethral opening and vagina meet.
Do a google search for clitoris location and have a look at the images if you are still not sure.
Enjoy it when u find it, it will give many hours of pleasure :)
Maybe it's hidden under the skin, my wife's is.