Hi all I am new here, I know this is long but please help! I have this problem, whenever I see something disturbing, I cannot get it out of my mind. Now here is the problem..recently my jerk friend think it would be funny to show my gay porn as a "joke". I am 13 years old turning 14 soon and that is really disturbing...now like I said before I don't tend to get disturbing things off my mind. And I think this is effecting me, Like I am getting paranoid that this will make me gay or something. For example, I know sometimes you will get a random erection, but I get these while watching tv sometimes and I get paranoid cause I think it was because a guy was there. I know I am not gay, I have been straight all my life i have dated straight girls and kept my thoughts on straight girls. I want to "ensure" I am still straight, and also how can I get these thoughts out of my head. I know I am just paranoid and still straight, but I don't want to become gay. I don't really jerk off much since I think i am to young, but I always jerk off thinking of a girl. I wanted to test myself to see if a guy would get me hard but I felt weird so I stopped. I guess thats a good sign but I think that was a bad idea.
`To sum it all up, I just really need to be ensured I am straight and need to get rid of these gay thoughts, cause the more I think of them I feel i will become gay.
Thanks in advance.
`To sum it all up, I just really need to be ensured I am straight and need to get rid of these gay thoughts, cause the more I think of them I feel i will become gay.
Thanks in advance.
Ok, your only 13 almost 14 years old so thoughts like these are normal. You are just getting into your sexuality so many more of these thoughts will pass though your head. It's completely fine and does not at all mean your gay. Stop worrying and enjoy your youth! Hope this helped!
Thank you for the reply...but How can i "ensure" that i am not gay. and how can i get my mind of these gay thoughts. I mean it is something I saw then I get all paranoid. I just need something else to think about.
well do women turn you on? if your answer is no, then trust me, you're not gay. no matter what age you are, porn can have an effect on anyone. if you want to turn your mind onto something else try watching some straight porn or if you don't want to think about sex at all, start reading books. when my parents were getting a divorce, things got hard on me because they made me choose between the two so I turned to reading books to escape. I spent the whole summer at the library. it helped alot. For you, I'd recommend the twilight series (if you have not read them yet!). Just try it and let me know how things work out. good luck!
I guess I can try reading books. I don't really like porn cause of the naked men in it too.....kind of feels strange to me. I mean I have see straight porn w/ friends but I always got disgusted bcuz of the men in there...
I agree with you, the men in porn are extemely weird looking. They are made to look good looking and 'big' but in real life men never look like that. You're 13 so it's normal to not but turned on by older men. You'll be fine. Let me know how you're doing!
:( i am also like Future 12345 i am 17 :( but i am little bit different cause i dont have any sexual feeling with boys but when i see a attractive or a beautiful boy at that time i wish to be friend of him talk to him laugh with him i think this is my personality weakness :( Plz try to help me