im 14 and i have masterbated before but i wanna try it with a close guy friends but the only guy i can think of is this person i dated once but we r still really close...should i?
and how do i go about doing this and/or asking him, i fell a little uncomforable but i want to do it...can you help me on how to go about this?
Masturbation is by definition a private act with a single individual.
I'm not clear my you would want to share it with someone who is your ex-date partner. He'll probably interpret this as an overture to sex... or a coded request for sex with him.
I would rethink this very carefully before acting.
Now, if you are open and accustomed to discussing sensitive issues and things with him, that's another matter.
But you need to know that at age 14, he could be arrested for engaging in ANY sexual activity with a minor. And you certainly qualify.
May I suggest you get a copy of "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson and read up on the topic.
Perhaps what you are trying to tell us is that you are curious about sex, and only one person is close enough for you to trust.
Re-read the line above that starts with "But..."
You are underage.