I am a 36 yr old female and I lost my virginity Saturday night to a close friend. It wasn't planned, and honestly I can't even tell you how things moved so quickly. I know he broke my hymen and he stopped only after a few thrusts when we both realized how fast things had moved and no birth control. I have always been very shy and raised to wait til marriage, old fashion I know. But that is how I am. I adore my friend, however, there is no future for us. My period had ended the previous weekend. I have always been very regular. He did not ejaculate in me, though I know there is a risk of pre cum. I bled a lot that night and the next day and spotted a little yesterday. It was like a heavy period, but different. Monday morning I went and got the Plan B pills and took them as directed. How safe do you think I am from getting pregnant? As much as I would love a baby, this is not the way nor the time for one.
Very nervous...
Very nervous...
Hi there, if you took Plan B then you should safely have been able to prevent pregnancy as far as I can tell. It does mess with your period however so dont' be surprised if you menstruate again soon after, so bear that in mind. Does that help you with this? How are you doing otherwise?
It does--thank you! I sure hope you are right :-) I am ok for the most part, just very nervous and honestly feeling really alone on this. Having major mood swings... you would think by now I would know how to handle this like a mature adult. I can't stop worrying on what might be, or worrying about how this has affected my friendship with this person. I am finding myself over analyzing ever little symptom trying to compare it too early pregnancy vs menstrual. I think the next week or so is going to be the longest ever-- its the first time in my life I am looking forward to a period and I honestly don't care how bad it is BRING IT ON!! Thank you so much for your advise, it really means a lot. :-D
Welll I am sure that you are feeling very anxious because it was your first time having sex and it can be really trying for people when that happens. I just want to reassure you that you're fine, everything will be okay, and you be doing just fine. Be sure to let me know how it turns out, okay?
Ok, so I have been hoping and praying for my period to start early and it is refusing to cooperate with me. Instead I feel like I am non stop PMS roller coaster from hell. To say I am moody would be an understatement. I seriously don't think I am pregnant, the odds are so against that right???? But I keep having panic attacks. I was visiting relatives and my cousin shows up with her 5 month old baby and I swear I left on auto pilot and went straight to the store and bought an EPI test on Sunday. It came back negative right away. You would think that would calm my nerves, but I don't know if its accurate or not. Do you know if the Plan B pill messes with your hormones like this?? Seriously, how long before you know for sure?? Have a freaking feeling that my own body is messing with me. When can I just relax and move on??
Well, I can tell you that the more freaked out you get and the more panic attacks that you have, then you're going to throw your hormones off even more. Yes, it is accurate. Trust the test. Because since you took Plan B, that's what's going to mess with your period. Does that help you out at all?
Yeah!!! So I have to thank you for putting up with my freaking out. I do appreciate it more than words can ever say. After a really bad week of PMS, I finally started last night. I have never thought I could be happy with feeling like c**p for a week, but I can safely say this could be the worse period ever and I would still be happy with it. :-) Thank you for being supportive, I didn't have anyone I could talk to regarding this. I feel like an id**t with how much I really didn't know. I have learned a lot in the last couple of weeks, I can guarentee that I will NEVER be in this situation again unless I am ready for the outcome and have the support. The decisions I thought I might have to face alone were terrifying. It is nice to know that there are some really nice supportive people out there. Thank you so much :-)
First of all--your'e not crazy! Second of all--you're not crazy! And third of all--I don't mind. :-) That's what the forums are here for!! The only thing I ask is that you pay it forward. If you want to help other people here, that's the best way to pass along the good vibes. XD Glad you feel better!!
Hi...so i saw this post..and i find that im going through somewhat of the same situation..I didnt have sex...but there is the possibility that when me and my boyfriend were together about 4 days ago that some sperm came near my opening....I didnt consider that anything was wrong with this until about 2 days ago..when i realised i should be getting my period about some time right now...so i basically freaked out, went online...got myself more freaked out to the point that I went and bought plan B...i know its supposed to be taken withing 72 hours...but i took it within 96...I just hope that there is a chance it will work...I also noticed that last night I started spotting...and it was unusal as i have a very normal period and when i menstruate i get cramps and theres a flow of blood..but today again there was just spotting...im really worried...i mean most sites ive read say that ovulation usually occurs around the middle of your cycle..and if thats the case then there is no way i could be pregnant...but still i dont understand why my period isnt coming and if its just the whole stress of me thinking im pregnant that is causing my period to not come as it normally should....anyways i guess i just need someone to talk to and as you have been through what i am going through you probably know how it feels...
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Omg same thing happened to me! I only took one and I'm so nervous
What ended up happening?
Hi, Im 14 years old. I know it sounds bad but On November 16th i lost my virginity. I was so scared that I shook the whole time i was laying in bed. I didnt go to sleep till 4:30 and i woke up the next morning at 7:30-ish. The day after( November 17) i took the Plan B One Step Pill as soon as the nearest pharmacy opened( Around Nine o'clock). I waas a little bit relieved Yesterday ( November 18) i was eating dinner and i felt sick. I did not vomit though. But i barely ate anything. My periods are irregular.. and i rarely keep track.. last months period was around the middle of the month.. My mom has been reassuring me that im going to be okay and im going to be fine. But i am still scared. Does anyone have any advice.? any for me to calm down? for me to know that things are going to be okay.?