How soon can you have sexual intercourse after UTI?

I know this will sound strange but I used to be very sexually aggressive with my man but for some reason now it seems he's the aggressor and almost everything hurts. You say you and your partner are "kinks" I was wondering if there were certain postions or actions that I could try to bring the pleasure back instead of pain. I want to be kinky for him but I honestly don't know how, I've always had plainjane sex with past partners and now to try things I'm nervous. He really wants anal but it grosses me out really bad and I want to try sobi try to get over it but when it's almost in I freak out and it hurts. Any suggestions?

you obviously don't understand a man's urges and needs at all... sounds like his wife isn't wanting to negotiate at all and is possibly using ut as an excuse to be sexless. if it is that damn bad there are ither things she can do to relieve him and if the tables were turned i am almost sure he would do for her. don't be ignorant or a prude and shame this guy because he needs intimacy with his wife, at least he is on here looking for solutions instead of going out and getting it somewhere else... geesh, your man must be lucky... pff

Ditto! Catering to men who lack compassion is ALWAYS an empty well, but accommodating petulant, childish demands for immediate gratification regardless of the fact it would hurt you or compound a serious infection proves he is not man enough for you. Baby enough? Yes. But, did we really want to marry a baby boy?

Actually, I would like to add that it can still worsen your infection EVEN IF IT'S OUTSIDE...your urethra is not only inside but also right near your clitoris, in fact it's EXTREMELY CLOSE and not only can you DEFINITELY make it worse even just with clit play (I have experienced it and trust me) but also the worse it is and gets, esp the urethra i.e. where you actually pee from (which I would HOPE everyone knows is NOT INSIDE the vagina...) will also start to hurt more and more so not only could it cause worse pain inside but trust me as bad as those cramps and pains are...the outside pain is ten times worse. I felt like I could do nothing but lie in pain and take as many pills as I had available to me until i could go to urgent care..I honestly thought about going to the hospital the pain was so bad. In addition..men..i understand sexual frustration, trust me, women go through it too though we may not express it as much, but I honestly think the best combination is if the man can be understanding of the pain and the fact that if it gets worse it will be even LONGER before she can have sex again, and I think a real man would understand and have no expectations. That being said, I think (especially if it's a real relationship) that the woman should and would also understand what the man would be going through and once she starts to feel better (though sex is still off the table), I agree with whoever it was that said that there are MANY other ways to pleasure a man, and that it would be a very nice gesture to do something nice like that for him, ESPECIALLY (maybe ONLY) if they are being understanding, even if a little grumpy. Because honestly, who DOESN'T get a little grumpy when they're sexually frustrated? We ALL do, and a little grumpiness is understandable on both the man and woman's part in this situation. As long as both partners understand this it really should be ok, and if a uti is really causing that much issue with your partner, it's probably not a healthy relationship anyway. Just my opinion, and sorry for the very long post..I know i ranted a bit, so feel free to skim, but I think my main points are both important and relevant. And LASTLY, (I Promise!) if after all of this you STILL end up needing or somehow having any kind of intercourse or sexual activity involving any part of the females vagina, both inside AND outside, at the VERY LEAST MAKE SURE THAT IF HE/SHE (haven't meant to ignore LGBT here, my bad!!) HAS THOROUGHLY WASHED HIS HANDS WITH ANTIBIOTIC SOAP. THIS IS OF UTTER IMPORTANCE, just like the condom, CLEANLINESS IS KEY to keeping more bacteria from irritating and worsening the infection. And honestly, I would avoid any oral on the woman with the uti, because as clean as we can possibly be there are still so many bacteria in the mouth, and even just saliva can irritate something like that. Thats all, I promise, I'm sorry it's so long but I have personally eperienced the WORST PAIN from this and would NEVER want ANY OTHER WOMAN to go through that, so I think it's worth the read, or at at least a skim. Thanks!

P.S. I just finished taking my antibiotics, and now I'm confused at when I can have sex again, because I've heard many different things, and honestly, I'm kind of scared to have sex even though I want to because I NEVER want to experience that pain again...does anyone know FOR SURE WITHOUT A DOUBT what the deal is with how long to wait after BOTH SYMPTOMS have gone AND my antibiotic course has finished??!! would REALLY appreciate feedback!!!

Hi I just want to ask about that two weeks mean , so I'm having a uti now ,I felt the symptoms in wednesday night and I went to the doctor yesterday and I confirm it's uti again . It's my 3rd time :(
So when should I have intercourse again with my Boyfriend? Cause he's gonna come here in my apartment in November 3rd , do you think it's okay to have intercourse ?
I'm from Japan btw and the doctors here said it doesn't have anything to do with sex :/ confused :/

Exactly, I agree

Not all uti are from sex but most are. The intercourse pushes the bacteria into the urethra resulting in the infection. Wait about 2 weeks after your symptoms have gone before having sex to be on the safe side.

How long do I have to wait until I can have sex when u have a uti

totally agree selfish to say the least.

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Yes I find it helpful. Thank a lot . Taiwo

I completely agree with you. If something is wrong with me I make sure my husband is still happy

Smh! What's it to you??

Sick prick! Why??

Hello.
I'm 18 year old boy and I'm suffering from uti from last 2 weeks, my medical dose is over just 3 days ago. I just want to ask is it safe to have sex now without a condom..? And if i ejaculate inside my girlfriend does she get the same disease..??
Please help