how to know exactly if the hymen is not broken

I don't know but I'm still a virgin.

get a mirror every girls hemyan is different. use a tapon sick real slow in your vagnia if you can smooth that tampopon in their a good chance you heyanm is broken but  look in the computer to see what it looks like and  ever girl is difernt sometimes yyou may not be born with one.

you can break your hymen by finguring but it depends on the way of fingering, but its doesnt mean if you have broken ur hymen you are not a virgine.
your hymen can be broken at anytime, its a very delicate membrane when you feel you torn ur hymen u will see some blood , like red spots with the jelly liquid and a bit pain or sometimes not ,

you can also check ur hymen by a mirror, its in different shapes.

honey :)

if you have used a tampon about 4 to 5 inches than u have broken ur hymen , becoz hymen is a very delicate membrance u can tear it will sports bike riding or masturbating, but no matter if you have torn your hymen , you are still a virgin, you can even check ur hymen in the mirror with a good lighting , they hymen has different shapes, sometimes hymen is closed you cant see the vagina hole which causes u never see period , so if its open its surrounded by hymen tissue, hymen can be bridge shape, moon shape, annualr , u can better see ur self or ur doctor :)

Best luck

Hi dear all last night I have just feel sexual intercource on phone with my boyfriend but I did not even touch or enter any thing in my vagina and I completly discharge in these feeling and felt a little pain but that time there was no blood but today in evening when I go to washroom I was see that there was 5 or 6 drops blood comout of my vagina I m tooo much afraid that my hymen is broken or not?????? I was enter nothing ever anything in my vagina . Please help I was belong to a very religios family???? :'( :'( :'( :'(

Hi dear all last night I have just feel sexual intercource on phone with my boyfriend but I did not even touch or enter any thing in my vagina and I completly discharge in these feeling and felt a little pain but that time there was no blood but today in evening when I go to washroom I was see that there was 5 or 6 drops blood comout of my vagina I m tooo much afraid that my hymen is broken or not?????? I was enter nothing ever anything in my vagina . Please help I was belong to a very religios family???? :'( :'( :'( :'(

LISTEN UP LADIES!

If you want to see if you have already broken your hymen, which can be the result of other things besides intercourse then you can do the finger test. some doctors say that if you insert one finger (the middle finger and or index finger was recommended) into the opening of your vagina SLOWLY and you can't get passed the second knuckle of that finger without it hurting then It is most likely already broken. if you want to double check add another finger if you can take it.

I know I had this same issue because I'm a virgin and I thought I had broken mine due to accidentally having two tampons in at once, YEAH OW THAT WASN'T FUN to remove. It was painful and I realized I bled more then usual during the process. so I did this test. It didn't hurt for me so I assume that I already broke mine. However, every girl is different. If you really want to confirm that it is or is not broken I suggest seeing a gynecologist. I know that I will deff want to make sure with mine when I go.

Hope I was helpful for anyone with these questions!

Your hymnacammora break even if u haven't taken part in sexual intercourse simple things like if u play sports a lot or ride horses even tampons can break it and some times it's hard to tell if it worry u that much u can see a doctor best of luck 

~RD

 

This is only to be done if you are not virgin, but if you virgin contact Dr. they will cut no pain

What has been described is one of the worst things about old fashioned culture; but there is very little you can do about it unfortunately.

However, I suggest that you take a look at this site. I believe it will help clear any doubts.

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An extract: In old cultures, newlyweds were expected to hand over bloody sheets after the wedding night to 1. confirm that the hymen had ripped, 2. make sure the woman was a virgin and 3. check that the two had consummated the union. A little nosy, don't you think? Many brides didn't even risk it, they would simply cut the inside of their thighs with a sharp fingernail to soil the sheets—just in case.

I certainly hope this helps! The best thing to do is not let it bother you, just make sure you have a sharp nail or anything else sharp on your wedding day and a small cut on the thigh to get blood on the sheets is all you need! Just be careful to make a very shallow cut and not hurt yourself!!

stick yr finger in, if you cant get it in past the second knuckle on middle or index finger without hurting a little,it is broken

u would have came to me .... i will tell u the right thing

To be honest it's not true that your hymen cannot break by inserting fingers. I broke my hymen that way...Btw is it normal for "hymen blood" to smell gross, cause it's not a usual smell...?

talks u are saying are of times (periods) when there was not tampoons, when masturbation was sin, stretching legs was considered unwomanly, men married young teen age girls who were nearly domesticated inside four walls of home, men wanted to have high pleasure with tight vagina, his tool was too big that she bleeds or he is less of a romantic and more of rough and into his desire only; men too have changed now; it will be better if u check his mentality instead of being insecure about your body and your values. Happy sex time. Be safe and do it with right ones.

you have to have sex to lose your virginity!! a penis entering you once is not losing your virginity. my dads a doctor and i asked him about it and he said if you didnt have sex, you a virgin. (i coulda told you that) masterbating, and performing oral sex it part of sex but it doesnt take your virginity!! cmon now lets get real.