I am 17 now and have a 3 year old and thats because i got pregnant from having unprotected sex

Yes, I got pregnant by precum and now Iam 16 weeks pregnant. So be more careful

Your period could also be late due to being stressed out. If you took two tests, and both were negative, you're fine.

almost all responses that say yes are people who have "opinions" about the subject. proper medical tests show that precum contains NO sperm UNLESS that person has has cum since that last time they had intercourse and not urinated to clear possible left over sperm from the penis

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Hi! When I lost my virginity I was paranoid that I was pregnant too. Getting pregnant from precum is HIGHLY unlikely. The bleeding is from your hymen breaking. Your period may be late because your body is adjusting to the sex and the hormones!

"HI I HAD SEX I LOST MY VIRGINITY IM 15"
"Omg I'm scared I'm only 16 and having sex"
Here's the solution: keep your legs closed, then there will be no pregnancy scares :DDDDDD you're young. Finish high school. Fulfill your dreams. Get a good job. Don't ruin your teenage years with a 10-20 minute mistake. Omfg what is this world coming to -____-

So did you ever get pregnant?

I agree wit u 100%. Im a guy in my early 20s n dnt have any kids but ur rite completely. But its also 2013 n ur preaching to a bunch of lil girls tht dnt give a sh*t wat ppl say n sware to god tht it cant happen to them. Especially
Nowa days wen we gor 13 14 15 etc yr old girls who look like they r 18 20 yrs old, n im not sayin it to b an ass but girls nowa days r a bunch of lil smeezes n think its cool to give it up n sum lil ass girls eben want to b prego, why idk but its the truth..

Because he has ejaculated recently. Does it matter if its yesterday and not the same day?

okay i need help, I'm 15 nearly 16, my last period was on december the 17th 2012, and my boyfriend of nearly 2 years came over on the 7th of january 2013, today is the 9th of january. On the 7th we were fooling around and the first sexual thing we did (other than making out) was that we kinda had dry sex i guess, his head of his penis was rubbed up and down my vagina around two times, (clit down to outside of the entrance of my vagina)  and then the rest was directed towards my clit for only a few seconds, there was no penis to vagina contact after that, there was no sex/penatration whatsoever, we've never had sex and i only want to after marriage, after that the rest was just oral (and I'm 100% sure none of his ejaculated cum reached my vagina during oral sex) . Anyways I've been worried sick since he left my house till now, I've been stressing so much, he keeps on saying I'm fine but i cant be sure, could i get pregnant from his pre-cum when it was rubbed outside of my vagina, i asked him if he thought he had pre cum but he says he didn't feel it, but mostly every guy doesn't feel pre-cum. does precum really have sperm? or enough to get me pregnant? can it get its way through my entrance all the way to my eggs (I'm a virgin so my hymen is intact, also its a struggle for him to get his finger in there too so would that make it harder for the sperm to get outside through all the way to the inside, because its tight? i don't know, I'm trying to put as much information as i can) am i stressing over nothing? should i stop stressing, because apparently stress causes the period to delay and i really can not have my self stressing out any more. Ive searched so much, and some people comments say that you can get pregnant from pre-cum and with out sex, but a little bit of me is saying that they're just saying this to scare others, or they don't know themselves if they did something wrong. I'm absolutely freaking out, i guess you could say my parents are quite religious, this would ruin everything, i cant do this to them. I've learnt from this to always be safe no matter what, i just cant deal a baby right now.

And also on the night of the 7th, till noon today on the 9th, my stomach has been making growling noises a lot, and I'm not even hungry, its just all the time its making noises, and apparently stomach noises is an early sign of pregnancy? or is it too early to have symptoms now, am I just psyching myself out?

pleasepleaseplease help, i need some reassurance or something

thankyou x

I have been called "the Pregnancy Queen" so as the "queen" Please know that you are NOT pregnant, nor could you be. Dry humping is FAR different than dry intercourse. There HAS to be some entry of some kind for the sperm to even have a remote chance of getting to the uterus. Sperm CAN be in precum - it all depends on masturbation, urination etc. BUT once sperm are in the air they die (like millions) so the chances are Zero to less than zero for you to be pregnant from this. This would be the opposite IF he had entered your vagina - as he would have pushed any sperm higher up in your vagina. Think of it logistically, you can't see sperm - there are millions in each teaspoon of ejaculate. So just imagine something you can NOT see with the naked eye, trying to climb up the entire length of the vaginal wall, try and swim through the thick Cervical Jelly, into the uterus, up into the fallopian tubes and then try and find an egg IF there was one - which there wasn't for you, and then use up EVERY bit of energy to burrow through the egg outer film! IMPOSSIBLE! Hope this helps, and remember to try and take it easy, IF you guys get carried away ALWAYS use a word to STOP and think for a second. OK? Good luck and health honey!

thank you so so so much!! this made me feel better, I'm gonna stop stressing and worrying :) btw when i said dry sex i mean no bottom clothes at all, but i think you got that haha, thank you so much again for your time in answering this, means a lot ! :) xx

You are welcome! Glad I could put your mind at ease! I usually tell young people - whom have had a scare - - to ALWAYS remember that fear. This will make you NEVER take a chance on ANY unprotected sex. Always take a moment and think before you act - as hormones are VERY strong and persuasive! If you have any other questions, I would advise you getting a name (registering on her - don't use your real name) so that you can enjoy the other benefits of being a member on her - also helps people like myself, because un registered people just have guest - and I have been confused several times wondering who the heck I was talking too! LOL

yes you helped a lot, and I'm definitely more aware now :) haha sorry about that, i should probably make an account soon :) do you have any idea why my stomach keeps growling/making noises though? i probably just have a tummy problem, but it happened exactly the night of the incidence and it hasn't stopped since, its been like 3 days straight, its the only thing making me think negative :/ it has 100% nothing at all to do with being pregnant or right?

thankyou for your help again xx

also i am feeling a bit of back pain, and pain at the upper bit of my stomach (above the belly button) thats also where the noise is coming from, do you think my brain is making me feel these symptoms because i believe I'm pregnant? but i don't think believe that anymore, I've told myself I'm not... :/ or is it too early to even feel symptoms anyways

This sounds like constipation actually - even though you might have evacuated your rectum, doesn't mean that the rest of the colon is not having constipation problems. So IF this continues, take a mild herbal laxative - just to move things along. Drink LOTS of water and you could even take an Omega - 3-6-9 capsule to also help keep things moving! It has NOTHING to do with what has happened, just happened around the same time that's all! You are NOT pregnant - honest!!! LOL