I have been with my husband now for about 14 years and I am 33 yrs old.I have never had a orgasm during intercourse. This has posed many many problems in our relationship. I went to a urologist and his reply was that this was not something he could help me with, I have also went to therapy thinking that maybe there might be something they can do. I have also made a appointment with a Endocrinologist for this week.. Is there something they may be able to do to help, or am I going in the wrong direction? I am continuing my therapy, but it doesn't seem to be giving me anyway of helping myself to enjoy the feelings of the orgasm. This is also not been a problem with just my husband, I have had this problem throughout my sexual experiences. I have only been sexually active with about 5 people in my lifetime and this is so very frustrating to me and for my marriage. HELP
I am 43.5 and I have NEVER EVER experienced the BIG O. Did u ever get any help?
I am 54.
I have never found orgasms easy to have. Indeed, trying to work away to achieve an orgasm seems simply more trouble than it is worth. Then not having one after al that effort is simply embarrassing. For both of us. I love my husband but I do not love my failure in this department. Not having one makes me feel defective and my husband must feel a failure too.
I am a long term user of Zoloft and equivalents. It can apparently mess up the sex drive and orgasm. I am currently going through hell going cold turkey after 37 years on Zoloft or similar. I failed last tie I tried. Came close to suicide.
At then end of the terrible withdrawal symptoms I have my fingers crossed for a taste of the elusive 'sex drive' that simply passed me by. It would be interesting to know if it is all it is cooked up to be. Or is a good book better after all?
Then I also hope to lose a bit of the creeping weight gain: 11kg over the last 2 years on switch to Zoloft from a similar drug.
1 1/2 week down. I am in a terrible, almost non-functional state.
My immediate problem is how to a) drive to school, and b) teach when my mind will not work properly and ) I feel sick, constantly thirsty, have diarrhea, head ready to explode, and that nasty electric 'ping' going through me.
Will this take months or weeks?
Can doctors help?
I have never found orgasms easy to have. Indeed, trying to work away to achieve an orgasm seems simply more trouble than it is worth. Then not having one after al that effort is simply embarrassing. For both of us. I love my husband but I do not love my failure in this department. Not having one makes me feel defective and my husband must feel a failure too.
I am a long term user of Zoloft and equivalents. It can apparently mess up the sex drive and orgasm. I am currently going through hell going cold turkey after 37 years on Zoloft or similar. I failed last tie I tried. Came close to suicide.
At then end of the terrible withdrawal symptoms I have my fingers crossed for a taste of the elusive 'sex drive' that simply passed me by. It would be interesting to know if it is all it is cooked up to be. Or is a good book better after all?
Then I also hope to lose a bit of the creeping weight gain: 11kg over the last 2 years on switch to Zoloft from a similar drug.
1 1/2 week down. I am in a terrible, almost non-functional state.
My immediate problem is how to a) drive to school, and b) teach when my mind will not work properly and ) I feel sick, constantly thirsty, have diarrhea, head ready to explode, and that nasty electric 'ping' going through me.
Will this take months or weeks?
Can doctors help?