You asked this a year ago, Did it ever go away ? I’m 15 and have the same problem
I'm also 14 going through the same exact thing
Longer labia does NOT mean you’re loose. The labia is on the outside of the vagina. This does not determine how tight you are on the inside of the vaginal canal. My labia are longer and every guy I’ve been with has complimented how tight I am.
Want the male point of view? Don't worry about it. I've been with more than one woman and however it looks it looks sexy. Be proud of your body.
i do agree that loose is better
My bf took my virginity doesn't complain but he did talk to me abt the "looseness" and he wants to do anal instead saying it will he tighter but anal really hurt me when we tried, he keeps insisting and trying everytime and I have to tell him no or push him away