I am absolutely terrified to finger myself

Don’t be scared just start by watching some porn then you will get turned on then just get some loation or oil and just start rubbing what feels like a little ball and after a while you will feel the orgasam and it feels good but don’t finger yourself unless your ready

if you are scared about it hurting, then rubbing your clit won’t hurt, fingering yourself maybe will. if you want to masturbate easily and hurt-free then just try rubbing your clit for a while.

So..... im 14 and i always rub my clit as a form os stimulation but i want to penetrate. I have tried before and it didn't go in it just hurt. But i think im gonna try again today with the back of a toothbrush handle and some lube. Do you guys think that would make it easier.

ok guys update i put the toothbrush handle in it didn't hurt at all but it didn't bring any pleasure?

I but about 4 1\2 to 5 inches in with lots of lub (first time) and it didn't hurt or feel good i just got a weird tingling sensation when taking it out i put it in slowly took it out put it in slowly took it out and idk maybe its because it skinny but does that mean i broke my hymen

Hi, if you start off by rubbing your clit first how you normally do untill your turned on and your vagina is wet you shouldn't need lube, the inside the vagina actually has very few pleasure receptors in it so that is probably why you didn't feel much when doing it. The only real pleasure area inside is the gspot that's around 2 inches in on the front wall of the vagina that's best found by inserting a finger or 2 to around the second knuckle and doing the come here motion, the gspot area has a slightly different texture to the rest of the inside the vagina and that's normally the best way to find it.
The hymen can be broken in many ways depending on it's thickness, sometimes just by doing gymnastics or stretching exercises, riding a bicycle, horse riding or using tampons and not even know it's happened others what maybe a little thicker don't break until first or even second time penetration during intercourse sometimes painful some not at all and in very rare cases the hymen is so thick penetration is impossible so it will require to me medically removed.
You can always check to see if yours is still intact by sitting on the floor with a hand mirror and flashlight with your feet together knees bent then spread your knees as far apart as you can place the flashlight on the floor so it shines on your vagina then position the mirror Infront so you can see your vagina and with your fingers spread your lips so you see your vagina entrance, if the hymen is still intact you should see a whitish membrane around the entrance and partially covering the entrance, if you don't know what to look for just Google what does a hymen look like.
If you want any more help feel free to ask or pm me and I'll try to explain any questions you may have :)

Your body naturally does this to avoid infection

innit im sooo scared as well