I am pregnant but I am not quite sure who the father is of my unborn child.

This sucks I'm 21years old I've been with my current boyfriend for 3years I had cervical cancer when i was younger so i was told that i will never have kids so i never used a condom with my dude and never got pregnant.. Around November 2012 his friend moved in with us and hes so freaking cute and we started messing around unprotective cause i though i couldent get pregnant.. now im pregnant and dont know what to do ive always wanted a kid and dont want to have an abortion. And i know in my heart that its not my boyfriends cause we dont have sex alot ( to little) and i dont wanna break his heart and have his friends baby im so confused i would pay money for a prebirth paternity test but if its the friends he wants me to get an abourtion so i lose both ways...... I wish this was way more easyer.

Im in a complete panic. My fiance and i had been together for alittle over a year now and i recently found out on December 23rd 2012 that i am pregnant. I went to the doctor and they calculated that i am due about August 15th 2013. My doctor said i feel about 12 to 13 weeks. in October 2012, my fiance and i split up for three weeks, during that time, i had sex with one other man twice..once on thanksgiving and once two weeks after that. Also my fiance and i had been having everyday unprotected sex for about the last eleven months. This other man and i had it twice unprotected. who is the father?? My fiance or the other man? HELP.

I am in same situation. I am due June 27 and have had sex with my ex. me and my current bf started having sex on sept 29th but we used protection. he so badly wants a child and i told him it was his. I do think it is bc i think the condom broke. he has never had anyone pregnant  bc he got out of an 11 yr relationship and his ex was never pregnant and she has kids and they have tried numerous times. if i could figure out when i concieved it would help alot. the dr said around oct 5th he thinks but i didnt have sex with anyone on on october 5th. please help

Hey I think me worse dan all of u guys,was on my periods on the 24-27 jan,an after 5days I slpet wth my bf it was frdy dat,sat an sun,late sunday I slept wth my ada bf so hus bby isit 1st o second

Sorry that I butt in, but Im in a similar situation and just wanted to hear a female perspective other than my judgemental friends. So  here it is, Im 24 and expecting to give birth on may 6 2013, currently on my 29th week. I had unprotected sex with my ex-partnert on the  aug 14, then two weeks later(aug 28) with my actual partnert, my last period was from 27jul- aug 3, wich makes my most fertile state around guy#1. My Dr. already said that conception was on aug 15, and my due date and sonogram hasnt change(may 6) I wanna know if my actual partnert still has a chance on being the father because of the strong feelings I have toward him. :'(

 

Hi jwel,

How long is your usual cycle?

Day 1 of your cycle was July 27. You had sex on August 14 or day 18 of your cycle. Normally you will ovulate between days 11 and 16. The egg is viable for about 48 hours. Your ex could very well be the father.

Having sex two weeks later, it should have been very near your next period being due (if you were to have it.). You would have been at your lowest fertility.

It looks like the ex is the father. Only a DNA test can confirm.

Hi im in a similar situation and have been a week without sleep i had my last period january 18. i had separated from my bf for a while and slep with my ex husband one time january 29 with my period being jan 18 my ovulation day was feb 1. On february 1 me and my bf got back together and had like 4 hours of reconcilating sex and now im pregnant and not sure whos is the father. Drs have said i conceived feb 1 but does anyone else have answer to help calm me down?

take a dna test u can probably ask the doctor for it good luck

I can't imagine what ur going thru. But im in the same boat my knor feb3. I had sex w my husband on the 13. But I saw an ex of mine who I loved and had not seen in 6 years. I ended up sleeping w him on the 18 but used a condom. However, we fooled around for ten seconds n then he put the condom. He precum (was wet). I got scared so the nxt day I took a plan b. Now I take a test today and im pregnant. I don't know who the father is. Im scared I don't want to loose my husband.

hi, i found out i was pregnant on 22nd feb 2013 and i was 6 weeks 6 days during that time but during january i had sex with two guys. my boyfriend and have been together for 5 years now and we have unprotected sex since the first time we have sex and i never get pregnant but somehow me and this other guys we've known each other for almost two years now but i get pregnant twice. the thing is we use condom. on january i spend less time with my boyfriend but i dont really spend that much time with the other guy. i know i made a mistake but two of this guy is really nice. it just something stupid happen. i dont know what i was thinking.

same problem i am 5 weeks 1 day pregnant. had sex with my ex jan 12, jan 24 25 26  i had with my bf. I dont know who could be the dad. My ex wants to be the dad i just hope its not him and its my bf. 

I need an opinion.

I started on January 6th and again on January 22nd.

I had (stupid) unprotected sex with an ex on February 14 and my boyfriend on the night of the 15th. :-(

Home pregnancy test was positive on March 4, when did I get pregnant and which guy is the father?

Someone, please please help me. I'm 17 years old and I think im pregnant....  I had sex with my (at the time) boyfriend on the 7th of this month, we broke up the 8th, and I was so mad I had sex with another guy on the 9th. My ex and I didn't use a condom at all, but he pulled out before he came, and then the other guy, we didnt use a condom til the very end, and even with the condom on he still pulled out. I'm on birth control, but I'm still SO worried about precum. I don't even know if I'm pregnant. I should be getting my period around the 21st of this month, which means I was ovulating when I had sex :( I'm so freakin scared, I can't tell my mom, she always told me if I got pregnant I'd be disowned... I mean she still thinks I'm a virgin for the love of God. I wouldn't even know who the father is!! HELP PLEASE! give me advice!

hi, i am already a mother to four little girls. I recently broke up with my ex and i found i am pregnant. I am unsure of my last period but i do know it started around 6-9 as far as first day. I recently slept with someone else as well on the 23rd i slept with someone and on the 28th i slept with my ex. please help i am unsure of who the baby daddy could be. before the 23rd i had only slept with my ex.

Hi everyone, first I'd like to say I am glad this message bored exists. Second I want to discuss my situation. I am not having symptoms of pregnancy morning sickness, bouts of nausea, but the biggest and most noticeable is the fatigue. I have been exhausted constantly for days and it seems like every day it gets worse. I walked to my class last Thursday and almost passed out on the walk which is normally a pretty quick easy  2 or 3 min walk for me. The next thing was just waking up like ive run a marathon and not eaten in weeks. Ive also been throwing up after eating certain foods and have been craving oreo cookies. And yesterday I dipped cinnamon pretzel bites in cheese dip and ate the stuff up. My point is me being pregnant has become highly likely, right now I am 4 days late for my period last day I tested was a week or two ago it was negative and I decided to wait till my period to see if I get it and test again. Still wondering what this has to do with the subject? Well I'll tell you, if I am pregnant my baby has two possible fathers..my current boyfriend ive been with for over a year off and on and my best friend. Allow me to ellaborate, me and my bf were having sex, then we broke up, I went and hung out with some of my friends and ending up getting really wasted and having sex with my best friend. Oh also my best friend is in love with me. Anyway then a week or so after me and my ex got back together and had sex again..so now that i may be pregnant I am not sure who the father of the baby is. Both guys know about the possibility, my bf really wants it to be his...but my best friend also wants it to be his and is pretty sure it is his. I am going to get a dna test done as soon as possible as long as its not that unsafe one that can harm the baby...Personally I'm exited to be a mother but both the guys wanna be fathers to my baby but only one of them can be the father and I have feelings for both of them. I guess you could say im in a love triangle and im pregnant with one of the guys kid. Reading other peoples stories I started to feel better thanks for all you guys testimony. :)