Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnet for 4 monthes now. I have never had a kid before so I honestly don't know what to expect. I feel like im not fertile. I am 23 now but when I was 16 and IMMATURE I had a boyfriend for 3 years i tried to have a baby with and it never hapend. I just feel like thier is something wrong with me. I have done everything. I read on the internet that if you put your feet up at a 30 degree angle. Did that and it didnt work. I just want a kid :$
Hello!
4 months isnt a long time . . when i cam off the pill it took me and my partner a year to get pregnant! I thought i couldnt have kids.
After 8 months of trying me and my partner went to the doctors to get some tests done. They said to test my partner first and it came back he had a low sperm count. They gave us ways to increase our chances of getting pregnant i.e they told him to quit smoking and drinking alcohol, even to not wear tight pants haha, and for me to chart out each month to see when i was ovulating to ensure we were having sex on the "right" days to get pregnant! 4 months after trying that stuff i was pregnant :-)
I know how it feels to think your not fertile. It became an obsession to get pregnant and i was always so disappointed when it didn't happen. Once i started to relax and really get to know what was happening with my body each month, it just happened.
Not sure at the putting your feet up thing but this may sound gross lol but a friend gave me this tip- after sex to lay on your back with your legs pulled up by your ears and after your fellas come inside you to sort of finger it in further cos usually a lot of it comes out after sex! It certainly worked for me and nunmerous friends that i know.
Im now 23 and have 2 children, sophie 18 months and leon 8 months.
You must never give up hope and try not to get too stressed out as this can effect the whole process.
If i was you id give it a while longer and go to to your doctor to put your mind at ease.
I wish you lots of luck. Chin up girl x
4 months isnt a long time . . when i cam off the pill it took me and my partner a year to get pregnant! I thought i couldnt have kids.
After 8 months of trying me and my partner went to the doctors to get some tests done. They said to test my partner first and it came back he had a low sperm count. They gave us ways to increase our chances of getting pregnant i.e they told him to quit smoking and drinking alcohol, even to not wear tight pants haha, and for me to chart out each month to see when i was ovulating to ensure we were having sex on the "right" days to get pregnant! 4 months after trying that stuff i was pregnant :-)
I know how it feels to think your not fertile. It became an obsession to get pregnant and i was always so disappointed when it didn't happen. Once i started to relax and really get to know what was happening with my body each month, it just happened.
Not sure at the putting your feet up thing but this may sound gross lol but a friend gave me this tip- after sex to lay on your back with your legs pulled up by your ears and after your fellas come inside you to sort of finger it in further cos usually a lot of it comes out after sex! It certainly worked for me and nunmerous friends that i know.
Im now 23 and have 2 children, sophie 18 months and leon 8 months.
You must never give up hope and try not to get too stressed out as this can effect the whole process.
If i was you id give it a while longer and go to to your doctor to put your mind at ease.
I wish you lots of luck. Chin up girl x