I have been browsing different things, and what I have come across here disturbs me very much. You kids are out here screwing around, and you dont even know if certain things will get you pregnant or not. If you dont know how babies are made, you sure as hell dont need to be out screwing. Every one of you keep talking about "my boyfriend ejaculated here or there and everywhere". Have any of you geniouses ever heard of using a condom. I mean Jesus Christ in heaven. You all dont know a hymen from a historectamy, my God use some sense!
I am sorry for being mean, but I would like my tax dollars to go towards a new road or something, not the food stamps for all of your bastards, and your penicilin shots for your clap.
I am sorry for being mean, but I would like my tax dollars to go towards a new road or something, not the food stamps for all of your bastards, and your penicilin shots for your clap.
Hi,
I totally agree with you on your advice to some of the younger people,
BUT you have to give respect to get it.
It is not what you say,it's how you say it. You started off great and then you turned into a jerk. Your message was fine but your delivery went wrong at the end. There was no need to resort to name calling or stereo typing. These children are online trying to seek help. They didnt write in to be insulted. Think about it.
I totally agree with you on your advice to some of the younger people,
BUT you have to give respect to get it.
It is not what you say,it's how you say it. You started off great and then you turned into a jerk. Your message was fine but your delivery went wrong at the end. There was no need to resort to name calling or stereo typing. These children are online trying to seek help. They didnt write in to be insulted. Think about it.
It is ok to be upset, but this is a public post site, and some teens feel they should ask here for advice, because they are worried about seeking advice somwhere else. I respect the kids who are actually doing their homework on sex etc. On the other hand I respect an opinion of being upset about kids having kids, however things have changed significantly in the past decade, and this is what it is. Let me just be a role model and say young people safe sex is good, no sex is better, until you are older and out of school, responsible and are paying bills. Too many young people are ending up preagnant, and their take on it is...it was an accident. Well accidents don't happen if we are safe and cautious. Everyone be safe and careful, and to stubby2211 you have every right to voice your opinion, but we have to respect some kids that are actually seeking answers to their problems. ;-)
hey im 15 and i know what yur trying to say but
these kids are trying these things because sumtimes its just to awkward to go to parents or adults but once they try this stuff they have nowhere to go to and there scared so they seek professional help "internet" so yea just lighten up a little and give advice where its needed
these kids are trying these things because sumtimes its just to awkward to go to parents or adults but once they try this stuff they have nowhere to go to and there scared so they seek professional help "internet" so yea just lighten up a little and give advice where its needed
I know what you mean.
I'm 19, not a kid by legal standards and I didn't loose my virginity until I was 18, but there is still alot I could learn.
I'm on birth control so I am protected. Although when me and my boyfriend start having sex I will make him where a condom aswell, and have him checked for STDS even though he is a virgin.
My ex, (the only guy I've had sex with willingly) and I would never use a condom, and I wasn't on birth control at the time. He would just pull out. It's a miracle I didn't get pregnant...I am much more cautious now.
But I see where you are coming from, with all of these pregnant teenagers and kids as young as 15 and 16 having sex, it's crazy.
I personally think you shouldn't have sex until your 18. Kids shouldn't be having sex, for they are far too immature. My goal was to wait til I was 18 and in a serious relationship. I was 18, he was 23. And it's great when your in love with the person and you two hold a connection.
Trust me kids, casual sex and hook ups may seem like it's a thrill and fun, but people do get hurt and it's not as pleasing as you think.
I learned that the hard way when I was taking advantage of...The feeling was empty, scary, and it held no pleasure for me.
I like there to be a strong connection to be envolved. And expecially after that, my boyfriend and I are going to wait awhile. I'd say 5 months or so.
You would be wise to do the same.
I'm not saying underage sex is bad, although I don't condone it...But if your going to do it, wear protection or get on birth control please!
I'm 19, not a kid by legal standards and I didn't loose my virginity until I was 18, but there is still alot I could learn.
I'm on birth control so I am protected. Although when me and my boyfriend start having sex I will make him where a condom aswell, and have him checked for STDS even though he is a virgin.
My ex, (the only guy I've had sex with willingly) and I would never use a condom, and I wasn't on birth control at the time. He would just pull out. It's a miracle I didn't get pregnant...I am much more cautious now.
But I see where you are coming from, with all of these pregnant teenagers and kids as young as 15 and 16 having sex, it's crazy.
I personally think you shouldn't have sex until your 18. Kids shouldn't be having sex, for they are far too immature. My goal was to wait til I was 18 and in a serious relationship. I was 18, he was 23. And it's great when your in love with the person and you two hold a connection.
Trust me kids, casual sex and hook ups may seem like it's a thrill and fun, but people do get hurt and it's not as pleasing as you think.
I learned that the hard way when I was taking advantage of...The feeling was empty, scary, and it held no pleasure for me.
I like there to be a strong connection to be envolved. And expecially after that, my boyfriend and I are going to wait awhile. I'd say 5 months or so.
You would be wise to do the same.
I'm not saying underage sex is bad, although I don't condone it...But if your going to do it, wear protection or get on birth control please!
im 17 and a half and i also wanted to wait till i was 18 because to be honest i dont agree with a child raising a child and potentially anyone could get pregnant. However i have just started having sex with my boyfriend of 2 year (who was my best friend for 5 years before that). I dont think i will be any more or less mature in 6 months time and at that point i will be 18. Now felt right. I do agree that people are having sex at rediculously young ages, not taking into account what consiquences there could be, but i think that as long as both people in a relationship have built their non-sexual relationship first for a reasonable amount of time, are completely comfortable together and are taking the correct precautions then i think sex doesnt have to have a age. After all there are plenty of 15 year olds that i would deem more mature than 20 year olds.
I get what you're saying. I'm 16 myself and am totally 100% a virgin and I am really shocked when I get on here and see people my age who don't understand anything about where babies come from or how best to
protect themselves. But at least the people on here are actually asking
questions and trying to better inform themselves. Especially considering
that if a person does a search on sexual health information on the
internet, this website is one of the first places that pops up. I just wish that more people my age would talk to their parents or pay attention in
health class or at least do some research BEFORE they have sex (all of which I have done and I still want to remain a virgin for at least a few more years.)
protect themselves. But at least the people on here are actually asking
questions and trying to better inform themselves. Especially considering
that if a person does a search on sexual health information on the
internet, this website is one of the first places that pops up. I just wish that more people my age would talk to their parents or pay attention in
health class or at least do some research BEFORE they have sex (all of which I have done and I still want to remain a virgin for at least a few more years.)
im sorry but me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we have bee going out for 8 months. we did not do it because we wanted to get into eachothers pants. we did it because we wanted to give all we could to eachother, make eachother happy in no other way that anyone else can, to physically be no closer to eachother. yes it did not last for very long, and yes i do want to do it again. but i love him. and yes i may only be 15, but i know what love is. and thats why i have sex.