when my boyfriend fingers me it really turns me on. t is so good my legs turn to jelly, i wanna scream and i get an amazing sensation but then i stop him because i cant take much more. i have never climaxed before but i really want to. if i didnt stop him would i climax?
Maybe you already had felt climax
So, you can't climax at all? Like during intercourse, nothing and fingering/oral, nothing? If so, I'd have to say try giving yourself one. I know its always awkward when someone says this, but if you know how to give yourself one, then you can tell your boyfriend how to do it "right." Or, like I did; I told a preivous one that it just wasn't working, and he really wanted to get me to hit my climax, and he was such a trooper. He tried a bunch of different things with his hands/finger (and mouth ;] ).
But seriously, if you can't when someone is doing things to stimulate you, then try it yourself, because no one knows your body better than yourself. You know what feels good and whaf doesn't. If you're not comfortable touching yourself, get a vibrator (easier said than done though, right?).
But seriously, if you can't when someone is doing things to stimulate you, then try it yourself, because no one knows your body better than yourself. You know what feels good and whaf doesn't. If you're not comfortable touching yourself, get a vibrator (easier said than done though, right?).
It sounds to me like you ARE experiencing a climax.
When I was young, I couldn't fondle the tip of my penis during an orgasm because it was too intense. Likewise I had to stop rubbing on my partner's clit for the same reason.
Maybe you could try letting him do it to you longer. I don't think it will kill you. That seems to be a popular porn theme. The girl is forced to endure that type of over stimulation.
Have you found he has to stop you when you bring him to a climax by hand or orally? Does the tip of his penis get too sensitive at that time? I don't think it's unusual. Will he let you fondle the head or tip of it at that time?
"Jelly legs, screaming" sounds like you are already having some wonderful orgasms. Let it happen, scream, enjoy it! see if you can make him scream too. Have FUN :D
When I was young, I couldn't fondle the tip of my penis during an orgasm because it was too intense. Likewise I had to stop rubbing on my partner's clit for the same reason.
Maybe you could try letting him do it to you longer. I don't think it will kill you. That seems to be a popular porn theme. The girl is forced to endure that type of over stimulation.
Have you found he has to stop you when you bring him to a climax by hand or orally? Does the tip of his penis get too sensitive at that time? I don't think it's unusual. Will he let you fondle the head or tip of it at that time?
"Jelly legs, screaming" sounds like you are already having some wonderful orgasms. Let it happen, scream, enjoy it! see if you can make him scream too. Have FUN :D
well maybe your just close but your to embarressed to let him alot you to climax so i suggest you start masterbating on your own trying new things and have climaxs on your so your not so embarressed when your boyfreind does it