Well i have been with my bf for over a year he is the 4th person ive been with and im 18. i love him alot and sex is amazing. but i cant cum. i feel my legs tighten up and i get a little noisy and it just feels more amazing than ever but only when he uses his fingers during sex or by itself but i just cant cum. i stay realxed and just think about how good it feels i just don't know why i cant cum. and he feels like hes not doing his job. Can Someone help??
well this is very normal... most women cant climax without direct contact with the clitoris... this usually doesnt happen during sex, and u need a hand (literally he may need to just rub the clitoris with his fingers) in order to orgasm. you should let him know hes not doing anything wrong, but he can just do it a little differently to make sure he is pleasuring you fully!
good luck!
You get a little noisy and it feels good and your legs begin to do things on their own? That's pretty close to an orgasm, you may just need to work on that a little more. I always have to rub my wife's clitoris, she get's nothing vaginally and she doesn't like me rubbing her G spot. Rubbing her clit is quite difficult because it's not there. I mean it's hidden as in under the skin somewhere. I can't even feel it but when I rub her just right she kicks the ceiling and screams.
Is that what you mean by "cum"? It just takes some practice. If you mean squirt, many women just don't but that usually takes caressing the G spot if you can do it.
His tongue was made for giving your clit a good workout and his lips for sucking on it and all the other parts of your vulva. There is just all kinds of pleasure to be had that way. I loved to stick my tongue into her vagina as far as I could because she loved it.
It takes time and practice to find out what works best for you, we're not all the same so you just have to keep trying. I can't think of anything that's more fun than working on that to figure it out for yourself.
Is that what you mean by "cum"? It just takes some practice. If you mean squirt, many women just don't but that usually takes caressing the G spot if you can do it.
His tongue was made for giving your clit a good workout and his lips for sucking on it and all the other parts of your vulva. There is just all kinds of pleasure to be had that way. I loved to stick my tongue into her vagina as far as I could because she loved it.
It takes time and practice to find out what works best for you, we're not all the same so you just have to keep trying. I can't think of anything that's more fun than working on that to figure it out for yourself.