I've had 2 boyfriends who me I've had sexual intercourse with. My but I've always faked my ckiman and the "I'm coming" thin . I've never "came" before. And having tried pleasuring myself, I've gotten body shakes and my vagina for some reason gets stiff but not like penis stiff but like.... Clitorus stiff. And I've tried to proceed till I couldn't stand it anymore but literally all I've managed is pissing myself. And it is really frustrating. My he boyfriend and I have yet to have sex. He lives 15 miles away and its been almost three months since we have started dating . we have met 2-3 times since and are really wanting this. I'm really wanting this. And I want to make sure that he doesn't feel degraded or have his manlihood taken away because u can't come properly. By properly I mean with come not urine. I do NOT want to pee on my bf eww hahaa. But seriously in need to know what I'm doing wrong or if there is a way to find the secret to comming.I do not want to wait a year until my next GYN appointment. Help me!
Hi there
It will be wise to pass urine before attempting sex. Having sex on a bladder full of urine - you might expel urine during sex - pressure on the bladder. Ensure you do not take beer before sex, you will feel a full bladder soon afterwards. Good luck