i have recent got with this girl she is amazing she understands me and is very considerate i was single for 4-5 month's i had a healthy sex life with my previous partner of 4 years we just didnt work out but with this new girl she is amazing but the first time we did it it took me a while to keep an erection but i managed ot keep it long enough to start intercourse but the second time i just could'nt keep it up is there any reason apart form being nervpus the first time and less the second i am 21 nearly 22 but i dont understand why its happening to me :-(
How did your girlfriend react when it happened?
And is there anything you worry about? A few things that could cause it: being nervous, worrying it will go down because it happened before, worrying how she will react...
And also, the more experiences you have with this girl, the better it will get, so that's at least one thing to feel positive about!
(I'm 22, my boyfriend is 23, he went through the same thing for a long time when we started dating, but we got past it and our sex life is amazing! And we didn't need any outside help.)
And is there anything you worry about? A few things that could cause it: being nervous, worrying it will go down because it happened before, worrying how she will react...
And also, the more experiences you have with this girl, the better it will get, so that's at least one thing to feel positive about!
(I'm 22, my boyfriend is 23, he went through the same thing for a long time when we started dating, but we got past it and our sex life is amazing! And we didn't need any outside help.)