Same as me
As a woman I definitely prefer NO PRECUM. I've been with the same guy for almost 15 years now and he has never had precum. We have talked about it many times over the years mostly me saying how awesome it is for me since I'm the one putting it in my mouth. It's just tastes better! I have plenty of lube for both of us..lol
Damn! 33 and never came from a woman! I just couldn't let your post go without responding. I assume you can cum when you're jerking it yourself, right? If not, then you need to see a doctor. If you can then I'm betting you just have a shitload of stuff on your mind during sex, probably feelings of insecurity. You just need to get over the mental aspect of it and relax. The good thing is some woman is going to love you if you can't cum easily, just let her get up there and ride it as long as she likes. You'll eventually get there LOL :)
Hello I'm also a person who doesn't have pre-ejaculate fluid since I was a child. I'm am at the age of 27 years living with hiv. I'm fair enough to discuss my status with a partner of my choice of option; also good enough to use protection as required. I want to know my options to choose a person of a negative status in telling them my status without and conflict nor embarrassment.
Yes, you can have kids. I don't have any precum ever. And I have 3 kids.
Hello there.
I'm 21 and I rarely did have precum when masturbating.
But when my sexual life started with my current relationship, during sex and especially during foreplay, I saw a significant increase of percum, especially since my girlfriend told me she actually likes it.
So I guess everything is in our mind? Maybe a little encouragement?
Anyways, no need to worry about it, it's exactly the same thing. The point is to have fun doing what you want to do.
I'm 21 and I rarely did have precum when masturbating.
But when my sexual life started with my current relationship, during sex and especially during foreplay, I saw a significant increase of percum, especially since my girlfriend told me she actually likes it.
So I guess everything is in our mind? Maybe a little encouragement?
Anyways, no need to worry about it, it's exactly the same thing. The point is to have fun doing what you want to do.
My husband doesn't precum or at least none we can see and we have had two children
Yes you can, I have never had any precum and I have 3 kids.
Married 28 years and I have six beautiful children and I don't pre-cum. At age 51 starting to really want to pre-cum to help with wife's lubrication. Various lubricants we tried quickly becomes sticky. Putting lots of saliva on her is working best.
I am the exact same. I have studied anatomy and I believe this is a malfunction of the BALBOURETHRAL GLANDS. They are supposed to secrete pre-cum (which is actually mucus that's supposed to cleanse the urethra from urine) before ejaculation. But in men like us, they malfunction and do their job AFTER ejaculation. It doesn't mean anything other than we don't have the luxury of pre-cum and we could be more susceptible to urethral infections. It doesn't affect sperm in any way.
I'm so glad I'm not the only one that doesn't precum. Never have. Also, I've never gotten anyone pregnant, because I can pull out before I cum. P.S. I'm a trans girl.
Hey I'm 14 and I have the same issue. I looked up some things and for some reason retrograde ejaculation popped up. But I don't think that is the case, because retrograde ejaculation has nothing to do with pre-cum. I was stressed out for a few weeks because I always dreamed of growing up and having biological children. I didn't know that all it was was no pre-cum, thats it!! By the way, you seemed very relaxed about this whole thing lol. Now I can finally relax knowing my plans for the future can actually happen. Thanks for sharing your experience it helped me figure out I had the most harmless problem any man can have.
Hey I'm 14 and I have the same issue. I looked up some things and for some reason retrograde ejaculation popped up. But I don't think that is the case, because retrograde ejaculation has nothing to do with pre-cum. I was stressed out for a few weeks because I always dreamed of growing up and having biological children. I didn't know that all it was was no pre-cum, thats it!! By the way, you seemed very relaxed about this whole thing lol. Now I can finally relax knowing my plans for the future can actually happen. Thanks for sharing your experience it helped me figure out I had the most harmless problem any man can have.
Don't feel bad, I'm 51 & most of my sexually active life I've been just like you describe. I've always felt like I'm missing out. Maybe 5-6 times I've seen a drop or two & that was masturbating dry, because I wondered if it was blending with clear lube & I just wasn't seeing it. I found something that may help tho, check youtube "binural beats pre-cum" it's sound frequencies that you listen to with ear buds while relaxing in a quiet room.
I tried it & couldn't believe it, my underwear had a big wet spot from pre cum. Hope this works for you.
Same. My 'mechanics' are screwed