i don't know much about masterbating

Hi!
Alright so masturbating is really healthy for your mind, depending since sometimes you can get too addicted to it and it turns into a problem. Anyways, to masturbate you need to rub your clit or insert your fingers or something steril (vibrator, dildo...) inside of yourself. If you never had sex, DON'T insert anything since it could hurt you. Rubbing on a remote could hurt you since the remote is hard and solid, it would only irritate the skin which will make it hurt and make you want to never do it again. Use your hand, your fingers, the shower head if it's removable and not too pinching on the skin or even the faucet in the bath. :)

Hope this helps. Need to know anything else just ask :)

If you manage to achieve an orgasm it would be normal to not want to do it again ----- for a while anyway. You have satisfied the associated pleasure centers in your brain, temporarily. Two minutes seems a little fast. Are you getting an orgasm? I don't know if you are really lucky or really unlucky. You must really love riding a bicycle.

Just a suggestion. I can give my wife some serious pleasure using my whole hand flat against her vulva so my middle finger is rubbing against the center where her clitoris is and the two fingers beside it are rubbing along the sides of her outer lips. The clitoris is much longer than a penis but it's mostly inside and it's shaped like the roots of a tooth so rubbing the sides at the same time can produce a wonderful orgasm. I think the palm of my hand against her pu**y mound adds to it too.

I can't tell you that works for every girl, but it sure works for her.

You don't need to insert anything to achieve some serious pleasure. Many women, my wife included, get very little from that. It took me years to perfect a method of pleasuring her while I was inside her.

 

 

 

Everyone has felt the same thing you do when you masturbate or after orgasm. You may feel shame, regret, guilt, or what you feel, never want to do it again. Eventually, you will get past those feelings with time. I myself still have a guilty feeling every once in a while when I masturbate. You need to remember that masturbation is a natural part of life, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. 

Kim makes a few good points however she doesn't state why you shouldn't insert anything if you haven't had sex. If you insert something, you run the risk of breaking your hymen. It is the protective barrier inside your vagina that prevents sperm from entering you. The first time you have sex, or push something up there, it will break. It will most likely hurt a lot but only for a few seconds. You may however bleed when it happens. If you do, don't freak out, it is normal.

Njoy makes a good point as well. 2 minutes is a very fast and afterward you feel unsatisfied. You can try using a handheld shower head if you have one, or you can follow the advice that Njoy gives. Masturbation is not an exact science. Everyone likes something different. It may take time for you to find what you like. That time should be very enjoyable for you though.

Good Luck